YOU KNOW WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND / YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW
1,2010 . I just got my son off for school. It is a beautiful day . It' cool instead of hot . Everything just seems to be blooming . I know I am going to have a great weekend , because I am going home . Where is home you say , Well I am originally from New Orleans , but after Hurricane Katrina I have been staying in Baton Rouge for the last four and a half years, so when I go home I enjoy it immensely. I am sitting here excited and frustrated all at the same time. Why ?Well here we go . Let's talk about the title of my blog. Do we really reap what we sow ? Is it true what goes around comes around ? Yes and triple Yes. I have been dealing with this guy for about a year . He is so arrogant and disrespectful. Why do I continue to communicate with Him only God Knows. Now this guy has been hurt, says that all women are the same , and pretty much from dealing with him he does not think much of women. I feel his pain, I can relate to being hurt , but to just go around hurting , disrespecting and tearing down somebody , you know that is just sickening . I care about this guy and am attracted to him , but his ways oh I just can't stand his ways and the warped way he thinks. This guy I am confident feels the same about me. I believe he cares to some extent, but he says I have a mouth on me . He says I need to concentrate on learning to be a good woman. He is attracted to me but would like me to be more docile . I am no ones whipping dog. I am not a puppet . If it hurts i'm gonna cry . If I am happy I'm gonna smile . You know people are so manipulating , and what I wanna is do we really think all the wrong and hurt we do wont go unpunished. I am here to tell you ,You will get all that you dish out and more so be careful how you treat people . Life is to short forgive move on and love and love hard with no regrets and with no expectations , because when you can love like this , that's when it is pure love , so remember be good to one another and If your unequally yoke get out of the relationship , stop making one another miserable because Truly what goes around comes and around and you do reap what you sow bye for now .

Hey Sister Kimberly I've been there and done that and I got the T-Shirt! It's crazy how people think these days, eh? I'm happily married most of the time with a son in kindergarten, but before that I dated a guy in college off/on relationship was a real drain on my self esteem and on my brain while trying to get my nursing degree. It's really difficult once you have been intimate with someone to break things off when you know in your heart and mind that someone's not right for you. I think it took a good seven years for me to really break free of that on again off again relationship and the last time dude tried to enter my life, I'd already met my husband to be. I kindly, but firmly told him to stay out of my life because I'd moved on to someone else. That was a truly liberating moment for me. I do wish you the best in your love life and hope that you prosper in all areas of your life and thanks for this blog. It's true what goes around comes back around.