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FIRST TIME FOR EVERYTHING

Hoda Sulub · Monday, September 13th 2010 at 6:59PM · 225 views
Ok this is a double first since it's my first blog and first time I've been told this.
Here is the scene: I'm chatting with a older man at a certain website and everything is going alright. We're asking each other the basic questions and he asks me where I'm from originally, which is a question I get asked frequently. Thinking nothing of it, I automatically answer Somalia, East Africa, even though I've been living in North America most of my life. TELL ME WHY THIS MAN FREAKS OUT and says since I'm from Africa, I'm scamming him?? WTF? And even though I explained to him that I live in the States and pay my taxes, he refuses to believe that. Let me tell you I was angry and laughing at the same time because it was the first time someone has accused me of such RIDICULOUS THING.

My question to you guys is HAS ANYONE ANYONE EVER ACCUSE YOU OF AN OUTRAGEOUS THING?
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Tee E Monday, September 13th 2010 at 10:02PM

HaHa! Hey girl, it's sad that someone accused you of that, but I'm not going to lie though, and I do say this with no offense to you. However, I recieve a bunch of email scams for beneficionaries and they are usually scams coming out of Africa. Which I don't know why. But the email always say, something about Africa.
But if you told him that you are in the States, then why is he not believing you? Men!!! I tell ya, there slower then a turtile these days, and he may have his own personal issues. However, I see your picture and your a very beautiful woman and I'm sure it's not that hard for you to find another idivisual that you can chat with. But please be careful with those. That's a funny story. lol take care. Peace

Jen Fad Monday, September 13th 2010 at 10:45PM

That's really odd, eh especially if you weren't asking him to send you money or trying to sell him something over the internet!

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Hoda Sulub Monday, September 13th 2010 at 11:14PM

@Tyronza aww thanks girl! It was just an innocent chat..nothing big, but I was just beyond shocked. First for everything right? Oh and I'm not worried about finding a guy..lol..I didn't even like him like that. Was just a simple chat, just like I would be chatting with anyone on here. But I've gotten plenty of those scam emails from Africa and across seas, so I understand to that extent. Guess he was just paranoid.
Thanx for the comment girl.

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Hoda Sulub Monday, September 13th 2010 at 11:16PM

@Jen girl I don't even ask my own parents for money, let alone a stranger...lol. He had issues. Like I said it was the first time anyone has ever said that to me so it caught me off guard, you know?
Thanks for the comment Jen.

Jen Fad Tuesday, September 14th 2010 at 12:31AM

Sounds like you're right~ the guy has serious issues!

Tee E Tuesday, September 14th 2010 at 12:35AM

Haha Yea I hear you, first time for everything, smh crazy what people would ask you, if I literaly had a dime for what people (men) especially, I would be so rich right now. Hmm maybe I should start asking. haha! But yea they man had issues!

Jen Fad Tuesday, September 14th 2010 at 2:40AM

The crazy questions that I would get from men were do you have kids and do you live alone? What kind of mess is that?!

Tee E Tuesday, September 14th 2010 at 6:46AM

@jen Yes I get that alot too! Or Are you single? and why? Ok whatever..lol

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Hoda Sulub Tuesday, September 14th 2010 at 7:09PM

@Jen and Tyronza, I feel you ladies. And as if they already have intentions when they ask stupid questions like that. "do you have kids and do you live alone" sound like if the answer was no, then a BOOTY CALL WILL BE TAKING PLACE ASAP....lol. I swear some guys! I mean the kids might now be so bad, but what do they care where you live? Lol.

Tee E Tuesday, September 14th 2010 at 7:32PM

Exactly, they just want to confirm and make sure it's safe to go back to your place, sad to say once a man ask me that I know what his intensions are, just I be like Jay-z on to the next! lol

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Hoda Sulub Thursday, September 16th 2010 at 5:26PM

@Tyronza i know right? Oh and I can't stand when a guy makes a s*xual comment about your body too. For me, that's when i don't call back or answer his calls...lol..big time deal breaker.

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