ALL THE SINGLE LADIES!READ
Why is it that we as women are never satisfied? When we are single we desire to be married and when we are married we are asking, Lord why? Lol and wishing to grab hold of that singleness for just a moment. Don't get me wrong I honor and respect marriage but this is for the single ladies.
So ladies here we go!
I don't have the solution, however I do know the power of being content in whatever your situation or circumstance. For example, single ladies enjoy being single. Its a reward in singleness. If you don't feel like cooking, u don't have to, if you don't feel like cleaning, you don't have to, if u don't feel like washing you don't have to, and those dishes can stay in the sink one more day. You don't have to be s*xy 24-7( if thats ur choice).
But seriously,I know those are all silly rewards but the greatest reward in singleness is finding out who YOU REALLY ARE.!What is it that your mind, heart, and soul all agree to. Building your standards and relationship with God is the most essential! Don't reflect on all you don't have and compare yourself to others, because truth be told it may not be all that it appears anyway. Believe me, what God has for you is for you. I always say don't allow 10% of negativity to hurt or destroy a 100% of who you are, or who you are destined to become! Enjoy yourself. Pamper yourself. Buy yourself flowers, a drink, treat yourself to the movies, dinner,and just embrace yourself. He will come in time. Don't just pick anybody. It is wisdom in waiting. Im not saying GIRL POWER, forget all men NO! I just believe that if you treat yourself the way your heart desires than you won't allow anyone to give you anything less. I think we as women, have lowered are standard of availabilty and in the process we have sold ourselves short. How can we let people take us for granted in the beginning of the situation and than towards the middle try and put standards on it? Start out the way you can hold out! We are so scared we are going to miss out on something if we don't GO WITH THE FLOW...Well the flow is not leading us anywhere but to a sea of tears. So lets try to stay afloat our tears and give ourselves happiness. Its true, happiness is from within. If your not happy with you how can you expect anyone to be happy WITH YOU?
These are things I had to learn for myself and it would be very selfish of me not to share this with you all. I really hope that it helps
So ladies here we go!
I don't have the solution, however I do know the power of being content in whatever your situation or circumstance. For example, single ladies enjoy being single. Its a reward in singleness. If you don't feel like cooking, u don't have to, if you don't feel like cleaning, you don't have to, if u don't feel like washing you don't have to, and those dishes can stay in the sink one more day. You don't have to be s*xy 24-7( if thats ur choice).
But seriously,I know those are all silly rewards but the greatest reward in singleness is finding out who YOU REALLY ARE.!What is it that your mind, heart, and soul all agree to. Building your standards and relationship with God is the most essential! Don't reflect on all you don't have and compare yourself to others, because truth be told it may not be all that it appears anyway. Believe me, what God has for you is for you. I always say don't allow 10% of negativity to hurt or destroy a 100% of who you are, or who you are destined to become! Enjoy yourself. Pamper yourself. Buy yourself flowers, a drink, treat yourself to the movies, dinner,and just embrace yourself. He will come in time. Don't just pick anybody. It is wisdom in waiting. Im not saying GIRL POWER, forget all men NO! I just believe that if you treat yourself the way your heart desires than you won't allow anyone to give you anything less. I think we as women, have lowered are standard of availabilty and in the process we have sold ourselves short. How can we let people take us for granted in the beginning of the situation and than towards the middle try and put standards on it? Start out the way you can hold out! We are so scared we are going to miss out on something if we don't GO WITH THE FLOW...Well the flow is not leading us anywhere but to a sea of tears. So lets try to stay afloat our tears and give ourselves happiness. Its true, happiness is from within. If your not happy with you how can you expect anyone to be happy WITH YOU?
These are things I had to learn for myself and it would be very selfish of me not to share this with you all. I really hope that it helps
