What does falling in love really mean, or what does it feel like? Is it all in vain? (1803 hits)
I am 40+ and I still get confused. What is it anyway? Is it even worth the time, effort, heartache, stress, pain, disappointment, pride, forgiveness and tears. I know that joy can also come with it. However, in the end, when we are on our death bed, will we know for sure that we had true love, will we know for sure that our husband, wife, or significant other felt the love that we felt towards them? Will they even give a d...? Can we truly say that our love, dedication and commitment was not in vain?
Search for the truth of self in a person, someone who is not ashamed of who they are, or what they do not materially possess, as a person should seek to locate what could never be discovered openly in their desired mate, especially when choosing to glide on the wings of matrimony. A person should want that initial feeling; deriving from the first made contact of them and their mate’s eyes, to always remain vibrantly in their system of togetherness. Find it s*xy and energetically healthy, being awesomely suspended by the magnetism of each other’s maturity, because truly the fullness of being emotionally ripe will be revealed in the development of what your union examples. In personal opinion, require a very skilled intellect, one of mystification to remain your attention, i.e. when you and your companion take time to relieve each other of economical agendas and play; it still must express propriety in your conduct of even intercourse. In furtherance, submitting to our sensitivities brings appreciation to have found love at all. When a man is able to recognize the values of a woman’s worth, she becomes his private occupation, working to emotionally inform the woman that her mere presence has become the asset of an expensive association. Leaving him honored to exist as co-proprietor of such a quality of good company, considering the romantic attachment intellectual energy enforces. In retrospect to being truly in love; if only a still of time could be bought, would you not charge 24 hours more each day, and to spend that extra time of quality with your love? When love is genuine and its company is so damn wonderful, one wishes to stay and play forever in the quality of that association. Fore in the company of your companion, every vacation should be spent sparing no expenses in returned attention…every land can be visited, and every cultural fruit tasted of that company’s exotic contribution to health. Writen By; Mario Andre Vernon
Sunday, October 5th 2008 at 11:07PM
mario vernon
After having just gone through a near death experience with my husband of 33years, I venture to say yes, you can know true love. Even through all of the hurt and disappointments life experiences bring. When you feel like part of you is truly in the other person, you might not feel their physical hurt but, you feel. You feel in such a way that who ever is in your presence since the sincerity of your love. You will fight Spiritually, Physically,Mentally and Financially for their well being. I believe the key is to find "someone who loves you not sole someone you love."
Monday, October 6th 2008 at 12:21AM
Esther Pinkston
...When a man is able to recognize the values of a woman’s worth, she becomes his private occupation, working to emotionally inform the woman that her mere presence has become the asset of an expensive association...
Well said Mario . Esther what you stated speaks volumes. It is true without a shadow of doubt that in a crisis you know what love is so it is a good idea to choose a spouse that will be with you for the long haul in sickenss and health, for richer or poorer, and until death does make us part. Those marriage vows come to life in those critical times & you know if love is in vain or not. After dating my college sweet heart for about 5 years, it was when my brother died that I realized that the love we shared was in vain. He wasn't there for me when I needed him most so you know the end of the story. He wasn't the man for me and I am glad I have someone who truly has my back.
Mario, your response should be a one-page Best Seller book!
Having been through two divorces, I still know my love was not in vain. It just took another path. In them, my mental health was the experience that showed me another true love...Self! It also showed me a higher, stronger, more powerful love,...God!
It was then that that soul-stirring, (everything Mario said) feeling of love manifested in my life. The major difference was that I was mature enough to appreciate it and embrace it without clouded vision. There is something so special when two people come together and plan for their lives together and then commit to making those plans come true.
It is so joyful to know instinctively someone special needs to simply hear your voice in the middle of a rough day and he/she tells you that when you act on that instinct and call him/her.
There is something inexplicably special when a man can trust a woman enough to tell her his deepest, deepest fears and pains and be there for his woman, too.
I could go on and on, but I don't want to because Mario already said it and Esther drove it home.
I hope everybody can reflect on that kind of love when he/she is on his/her death bed because I believe in my heart the love my mother had for my father made for his peaceful transition into the Lord's hands. They were together for over 30 years.
Sunday, October 12th 2008 at 1:57PM
agnes levine
