Are you a woman who would be ok with going out on the night w/3+ other attrative women besides yourself. Would you feel that you will attract just as many attrative men as these other attrative women Or would this create a breakdown of your self-esteem? Do you have to out shine? Or are you so confident its: "if he is for me he is and if not" good for my girl, go girl"! Even if you are attracted to him. Let me know Ladiez.