A Surefire Way to Finding the Mate You Want { Theme Song is Appropriate Perhaps??? } (390 hits)
BY: Rahaman "Kil" Kilpatrick - 21 Oct '13 | Home Black and Married With Kids.com A Positive Image of Marriage and Family
ALL of my single peoples ask me, “how do I find a good man” or “how do I find a good woman”? And my answer is always the same “boring” answer of “pray on it”. I call that the boring answer because people want me to give them a sure shot recipe like: “catch the 6 bus to Broad and Olney, then get on the 1st car of the express train going to City Hall and the dude sitting 3 chairs from the conductor’s booth, he’s the one.” If only finding the right person to marry was that easy. See, when you’re praying on something, you need to have patience. And in 2013, that’s something a lot of people don’t have…but we need it IF we wanna find the right person.
I’d rather be patient in finding the right person, than having to live through the hell of picking the wrong person. First things first, I know not everyone wants to hear this, but not everyone is called to be married. The same way everyone isn’t called to have children. But both are things most people want, so we move heaven and earth to get them and we don’t care about God’s plan for us.
We just brody our plan into effect. (Brody is philly slang for “get in front of” or “to take.” For example, “That cat just brodied me for my place in line”)
"But I’ve learned from playing this game of life for 39 years that God’s plan is better then mine."
So single men and women out there who want to be married, PLEASE I beg of you, pray to God for who your mate should be and wait for HIM to give you the ok, not your best friend, father, mother, etc. That right there is Kil’s sure shot way to find a mate, cause you’ll NEVER go wrong with God’s plan! Trust me on that!
Rahaman "Kil" Kilpatrick is a relationship coach, producer, writer, photographer, director and co-creator of Marriage Exposed. He has been married 13 years to his beautiful wife Tanya and they have a beautiful daughter together, Naomi. Through Marriage Exposed & coaching couples with Dr. Roz, Kil encourages people to always continue to fight for their marriages and relationships
