OHH REALLY ?
Wednesday, January 30th 2013 at 1:54AM
DAVID JOHNSON
SO HE GOT YOU TO HUMM ? I WAS WONDERING WHY I SEEN PROFILE INFO
WHAT IS THAT ABOUT >>
Wednesday, January 30th 2013 at 1:58AM
DAVID JOHNSON
So, I justed wanted all of you to know on this side, some of you may want to change some information on your profiles; (just for safety precautions).
Wednesday, January 30th 2013 at 2:04AM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
this is a bit much ,,,what i dont get is he really thinks no one knows he is behind all this madness !
Friday, February 1st 2013 at 2:00PM
DAVID JOHNSON
Well let's just say, I got a message from my email carrier last week... saying that I needed to change my email password....
Someone was trying to hack my email account..... Of course that has never happend to me... I figured it was that lil Pansy trying something new....
CyberThievery is against the law!
Friday, February 1st 2013 at 2:19PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
he knows that we know.... but he needs a good ole fashion azz whipping!!
Friday, February 1st 2013 at 2:21PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
I wonder why the admen is allowing this to take place on there site ,im sure they are aware of what he is doing ,,,,,,this is outside of saint jakes picking a fight with all the females 1
Friday, February 1st 2013 at 2:48PM
DAVID JOHNSON
You are looking bad with your continual support of David Johnson and making the other sistahs wonder about you?????
Let Saint Jake upgrade you to save yourself from yourself !!!!!!! Friday, February 8th 2013 at 6:28PM Yaiqab Saint
Friday, February 8th 2013 at 7:01PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
Did you think after your friends ran to the administration to "snitch" on me that Jake was going to lay low... ohh. No I aint afraid of no one and you see how I talk to the bosses too! Right in the front.... not like you back-dooring with all your sneaky lies and deceit. Friday, February 8th 2013 at 6:57PM Yaiqab Saint
Friday, February 8th 2013 at 7:04PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
@Steve You trained your Negro slaves good !!!!!!!!
Especially David Johnson was a "big catch" for you as Harry said because you always had Cynthia Merrill Artis through Irma Robinson your First Lieutenant Colonel.... I know you can hit that too!
The offer for friendship extends only to you.
David Johnson & Cynthia Merrill Artis and some others are not even a remote possibility. I must say you guys are entertaining. Ohh. tomorrow I have time to play with you because Jake and my partner made a decision to stay put and work out of our homes due to the storm which will only drop 9 inches of snow in Nassau County, Long Island.
Yeah. Yeah... now I can play with "Masterpiece Gurl" and your BIA crew for cinema laughter tomorrow!!!!!!
This site is exciting and entertaining!!! Thursday, February 7th 2013 at 3:30PM Yaiqab Saint
Friday, February 8th 2013 at 7:08PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
@Steve Perhaps???? However I really liked you until you joined in with David Johnson & Cynthia Merrill Artis. Cynthia was warned first not to assist in a joint attack against me with David Johnson. Now all the Black Men on BIA has seen her viciousness against Brothers... well her reputation is gone.
Now you have more smarts than all of them combined and now your reputation is sufferring.
Come out of the "Gang Mentality"....... be like Saint Jake, Harry Watley, Robert Powell, Sanender El Ameen.
We don't need to be comforted by these black sistahs.
We have an independent and progressive mindset.......
So join the "winning team" of "TRUE MEN" whom can stand on their own and avoid be emasculated by women that are basically lonely and you filling the void for most of them not having a "Man" ?????
Come on Steve get with the program.... !!!!!!!
Plus we have can restore intellectual discussion between me and you like in the past! Thursday, February 7th 2013 at 4:17PM Yaiqab Saint
Friday, February 8th 2013 at 7:09PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
What's that up there Yakkie begging for Steve's friendship....
((Cynthia was warned first not to assist in a joint attack against me with David Johnson. Now all the Black Men on BIA has seen her viciousness against Brothers... well her reputation is gone. ))
OH WELL WITH THAT SAID.... Yakkie bite my azz; you talk more **** than two old hackling hens....
B____ch!!! How do you think you look?
Oh yes and the Sista's are talking about your Nasty... Ignorant ...disrespectful... childish ...impish.... azz; lil dummy.......
Yakkie you need to Join Saint!!!
other than that.... you better keep my m/f name out of your conversations... I have already served your mentally deficient azz a beat down... I've told you where I stood and I'm done.... So all that dumb ****.... you can discuss with Harry and Robert!!
Thursday, February 7th 2013 at 5:04PM Cynthia Merrill Artis | delete
Friday, February 8th 2013 at 7:10PM
Cynthia Merrill Artis
We get a lot of emails, phone calls, and comments on this blog from adults who are being bullied though technology. They stress to us that cyberbullying is not just an adolescent problem. Believe me, we know. We receive more inquiries from adults than teens. We know that cyberbullying negatively affects adults too. It’s just that we spend the majority of our efforts studying how this problem impacts school-aged youth due to their tenuous developmental stage. That said, I thought I would take some time here to give the adults who have been victimized out there some general advice.
First, it is important to keep all evidence of the bullying: messages, posts, comments, etc. If there are ways you can determine who exactly is making the comments, also document that. Second, contact the service or content provider through which the bullying is occurring. For example, if you are being cyberbullied on Facebook, contact them. If you are receiving hurtful or threatening cell phone messages, contact your cell phone company to obtain assistance. Along those same lines, familiarize yourself with the Terms of Use for the various sites you frequent, and the online accounts you sign up for. Many web sites expressly prohibit harassment and if you report it through their established mechanisms, the content and/or bully should be removed from the site in a timely manner. To be sure, some web site administrators are better and quicker at this than others.
Also, please be careful not to retaliate – or do anything that might be perceived by an outsider to have contributed to the problem. Do not respond to the cyberbully except to calmly tell them to stop. If they refuse, you may have to take additional actions. If you are ever afraid for your safety, you need to contact law enforcement to investigate. They can determine whether any threats made are credible. If they are, the police will formally look into it. The evidence that you have collected will help them to evaluate your situation.
You should also take the time to check your state laws. We have discussed some of these laws on this blog and have a summary of many applicable laws here. In Wisconsin, for example, it is a misdemeanor if someone uses computerized communication systems to “frighten, intimidate, threaten, abuse, or harass another person.” It is also against the law to “harass annoy, or offend another person.” See what the laws in your state are to determine if the police should get involved.
If the threats or comments are detrimental to your health, safety, or occupation, you might want to consult with an attorney who specializes in harassment, defamation of character, false light, intentional infliction of emotional distress, or similar types of civil action. A letter sent from an attorney (on law firm letterhead) to the bully may be all that is necessary to get the bullying to stop. The problem with this approach is that it can be costly. I have spoken to some victims who have consulted with attorneys who want a significant sum of money to get involved, even at a basic level. I can only imagine how frustrating this is after experiencing emotional and psychological suffering – and then realizing that you can’t afford to get legal help. Another problem associated with pursuing a bully through civil action is that, even if you are successful and a judge or jury rules in your favor, it can be difficult to determine an appropriate damage amount. I served as an expert witness in a cyberbullying case in the summer of 2008. In that case, the adult victims were being bullied in an AOL chat room. Everyone agreed that what the bully was doing was wrong, but to what were the victims entitled? They had some modest medical bills and could be reimbursed for costs associated with their AOL account – but these losses added up to less than $1,000. And while I don’t know the actual amount, I am sure their legal bills were in the tens of thousands of dollars. They ended up settling for a very small amount – just to make a statement to the bully. Most of us can’t afford to take those actions on principle alone.
In sum, it can be difficult to hold bullies accountable for their actions (for both adolescents and adults). In a country such as ours that values free speech so highly, many people genuinely believe they can say whatever they want, to whomever they want. We know that is not true, but it isn’t clear where exactly the line is. And just because we *can* say certain things, doesn’t mean we should. It’s no wonder that many teens are wrestling with this problem—they see the adults in their lives saying mean and nasty things to others on a regular basis. Do your part to model appropriate behavior and address any hurtful language when it comes up. The kids (and other adults) in your life will hopefully see it, remember it, and act in the right ways.
