" I Wanna Be Real & Share What's On My Heart..." Let's Get Married ... (1159 hits)
I was speaking with my younger female relatives recently who are in their prime (early 20’s) regarding the importance of not wasting their youth on men who don't want to commit. There are women in their mid 40's and early 50's who thought at the time (when they were in their 20’s) that they were having fun giving away their ‘cookies’ for free.
Two, three, or four kids later, these men are MIA. As a result of which, these women who have wasted their youth now begin to realize how foolish they were and then grow to have resentment toward younger women who have decided to do things a bit differently.
All wise young women, realize they can’t give away their ‘cookies' for free. As I told my younger relatives and am now telling you all the same, if a man knows he can get your 'cookies' for free, why then would he now want to buy them? So young women from my heart to yours, don't share your 'cookies' with a man who's not willing to buy them even if it means you'll be alone for a time.
If men want your 'cookies', let them realize they aren't free. Lastly, remember there are several men out there in the Universe (and it's HUGE) who don't want free cookies; they want the entire box and not only that, are willing to stock up and buy in bulk. Having said that young ladies, I do believe that is the kind of man who knows that nothing in life (worth having anyways) is free and that he has to pay for quality.
Absolutely I did have a time clock... and it started to tick really loudly. All women have a clock so whether they choose to listen it or they choose to ignore it is another story entirely. Some people have referred to that 'clock' as 'passing the flower of youth'.
Why in the world would it make a man afraid to marry someone just because she makes her desire for marriage known. That's pretty much most little girls dreams... to be a wife someday as well as a mother to her own children. Men shouldn't get cold feet but rather know within themselves that having a family is suppose to be the natural progression of things. He shouldn't be thinking of anything else in my mind except to secure himself a wife and have little guys to run and play with of his own.
