Needs of Women & Men In Relationships: One of things Women Love from Men is a Listening Ear... (1392 hits)
(Listening Ear) ...This is primarily because women are creature of the ear (auditory beings). Communication is the blood of all relationships (as I keep on drumming). No woman will ever be fed up with getting a man who would give her undivided attention, and look into her face and eys lovingly and intently, with an honest heart that patiently listens to everythign flowing from the lips of the woman.
If a man is mean to his lover, and the woman comes across a man who will sincerely make time to listen to her, and comfort her, then love can develop between the two people that could be romantically and s*xually explosive and disastrous. That is why people's wives have frequently fallen victims to men who would listen to them sympathetically and lovingly---- even ministers, counselors, and married men without wisdom and self-control, have sometimes fallen into disgraceful adultery in this regard! Both men and women in distress need to watch out!
Men must learn, not to only listen to the voice of women, but listen to their hearts as well (sense the spirit behind their words); then they can speak, act, and behave with the best response that will promote love, understanding, and intimacy in the marriage or romantic relationships. Any man who respects the rights, views, and opinions of a woman, and makes time to listen to what she has to say, will be greatly loved by that woman. If a husband will not make time and show respect to his wife by looking at her face and listen to her conversations and important things that she wants to tell her lover, and give her good responses, then they cannot grow together in their romatic relationship.
Women are creatures of the ear (auditory) and are highly attracted by words. Females therefore crave to get attention for their words opinions, and genuine complaints. I have noticed that in counseling, the majority of women (who usually come for help in their relationships instead of the men) do not just come for solutions to their problems, but seek for a compassionate person with the caring heart to listen to them, and hear their story. If you have listening ear for a woman, and top it up with expressions of concern and comfort, you give that woman a real balm to heal her heart and mind to a large extent. Ify you are spiritual enough to add appropriate scripture, and engage the lady in prayer to the Lord, then the deal is sealed.
The truth is that too many women have been denied hearing in many societies, especially in cultures where the woman is expected to be silent and just follow the man who is the champion of the entire show in a marriage or romantic relationship, and even in the community. This creating more yearning and demand in women to be listened to and clearly heard by their male partners.
I think the reason married men have "jump offs" could be what the author spoke on in the E-reading regarding Men needing s*x to feel Whole as the other point of what is needed of men by women; however, when men don't listen to their women ( a need of women from men) then women shut down and can't respond to the men's s*xual needs.... hence themen go found jump offs although they have no INTENTION of leaving their main squeez.
I think jump offs miss it thinking that because they are providing s*x for married men that they somehow will win over the men and push the wives out... it doesn't work that way. If men are getting what's missing (s*x) from a jump off ...they have no reason to leave... they are having their cake and pie.
Of course, men will pretend to listen to jump offs, but what they really want ultimately is a piece of booty hence the term "side piece" is derived (the many additional women they (Men) have on the side who aren't their main women or their wives. ...
Will men listen? Some are I think and more listening, and are also talking as well. Relationships are a team effect if one is loosing his or her hearing. Someone suffers and the loss has a greater damage. There are some good points in the article worth considering. Thanks for sharing.
Saturday, May 19th 2012 at 9:38AM
MIISRAEL Bride
Basically relationships take two people working very hard to make it work. When one is talking, the other needs to listen and vice versa, but for the most part God has made women differently in the sense that we are stimulated by good conversation. That's why we talk a lot and are drawn to gossips and the telephones! ((LOL)) Men are physical and they are drawn by what they see (those coke bottle shapes from s*xy women) long before they talk to a woman. That's just the way it is and how the creator created us. Sure we both need to listen to one another but for the most part this is how God has wired men and women differently.
Saint, No worries, but it's not just single men who like 'jump offs' though.
Sunday, May 20th 2012 at 10:43AM
Jen Fad
I don't get you Saint. Do you mean married men go to jump offs when their wives are pregnant, eh? Did you know the s*x is actually better when a woman is preganant (unless she has a complicated pregnancy). The orgasms for a pregnant woman are out of this world as well as having plenty of s*x during pregnacy will help to strength the pelvic floor muscles (kegel exercises can be done by squeezing the husband's private part during s*x) in order to prevent tearing and lacerations of the woman's private area during labor.
