No matter what anyone says, just about all relationships have their challenges. But how do you know when a problem is more serious?
Dear Spirit,
Please help. My s*x life is quickly going down the drain. My husband and I have been married for 23 years and we used to have hot, passionate s*x several times a week. Now, we barely “do it” at all, and when we do, he doesn’t seem to stay as…excited as he used to (if you know what I mean).
I’ve tried everything I can think of to spice things up in the bedroom – naughty lingerie, dirty talk, and initiating spontaneous s*x when my husband least expects it – but nothing seems to be working. When I try talking to my husband about it, he just gives me the old, “It’s not you, it’s me routine.” At first I thought maybe it was just a phase that we were going through, but how can I not think that it’s me when he loses his erection as soon as I touch him? Should I
