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THE FAMILY AND THE FUTURE...LETTING GO!!! MOTHERS LET'S HEAL THE FAMILY...EDUCATION (388 hits)

WORD OF THE DAY...HAVE YOU CALLED YOUR MOTHER LATELY...WELL... this song should do it! CLICK ON THE TITLE...AND VIOLA! LOVELY WON'T YOU SAY!
SONGS CHANGE THINGS...THE MAGIC OF MUSIC!

FIRST OF ALL I HAD THREE B-D SHOUT OUTS...

HAPPY B-D MOTHER,

HAPPY B-D MY SON, DAY BEFORE YESTERDAY...

AND HAPPY B-D...A QUEEN AT TX TECH UNIVERSITY....

YESTERDAY FROM THE MOTHER QUEEN,,,AND YES SOMEDAYS IT CAN GET MEAN...

BECAUSE I AM THE MOTHER, AND I RULE THE ROOST...HERE!

I DID NOT LET YOU GO IGNORANT...I DID NOT LET YOU GO NECKADE, OR HUNGRY... I NEVER WILL!

I SEND DISCPLINE, AND GODLY SUPPORT, AS WELL AS FINANCIAL!

I SEND YOU WORDS OF KNOWLEDGE...BECAUSE I AM THE WORD....FOR THE WORD TO YOU!

BUT I KNOW HOW TO SEND LOVE, AND NEVER FORGET THE GRACES FROM ABOVE!


ALL MY ADULT KIDS KNOW...MAMA DON'T TAKE NOOOOOOOOO....MESSSSSSSSSSSSS!

NEXT ISSUE....WOMEN...LET THE PAST GO!!! LET IT GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

I HAD TO LEARN THIS, AND PRACTICE THIS...I ONLY HAVE ONE MOTHER...

AND I PLAN TO MAKE HER HAPPY WHY!

BECAUSE SHE IS ALL I HAVE LEFT!

ALL I HAVE LEFT! SOMETIMES THE PAST CAN DILUTE YOUR FUTURE.

MOVE FORWARD FAST...BECAUSE SOMEWHERE WE MUST FIND SOME REAL LOVE THAT LASTS, AND LASTS, AND LASTS! AMEN!

FEMALES...STOP ARGUING AND BACK TALKING YOUR MOTHERS!

I REMEMBER, WHEN MY SISTER IN LAW PASSED,,,AND HER SON WAS IN THE ROOM SAYING...MOTHER FORGIVE ME, FORGIVE ME!

THIS WAS A TOUCHING MOMENT...

BECAUSE SHE HAD GIVEN HIM TOO MUCH, AND ALL HE REALLY NEEDED TO UNDERSTAND THAT LOVE IS FREE....THE LOVE OF A MOTHER! HE IS NEVER THE SAME! THE GUILTY CONSCIOUS!

HE KNOWS THAT HE LOST THE BEST THING IN HIS WORLD....AND WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET HER BACK...NOTHING IN THIS MATERAILISTIC WORLD CAN SURFACE'.

I NEVER DID, AND DO NOT ALLOW MY CHILDREN TO DO THIS EITHER...I WAS WATCHING BRIDEZILLAZS, AND ALMOST FEEL OUT OF MY SEAT,,,THE WAY WOMEN TALKED TO THEIR MOTHERS.

THIS MESS ENCOURAGES DAUGHTERS TO DISRESPECT THE ONES WHO GAVE THEM BIRTH!!!

WELL NOT ON MY CLOCK! NO WAYYYYYY!

NEVERTHELESS, I TURNED THIS RIDICILOUS SHOW OFFFFFFFFFFFFF!

HOW DISRESPECTFUL!

ANYWAY,,,I KNOW BY BEING RAISED,,,IF I HAD TALKED TO MY PARENTS LIKE THIS..

.I WOULD NOT BE LIVING TO TELL THE STORY, OR TALK TO YOU ABOUT IT. ;) AND ALL THE BETTER.

I HAVE TRIED...AND WILL NEVER....STOP!

WITH MENTAL FAMILY FOLKS...A YOUNG SISTER...WHO THINKS I AM DEFEATED...INSTEAD IT WAS MY MOTHERS B-D! JULY 10TH,,,

MANY WILL TRY TO DETER MY MISSION...THEY WILL NOT SUCCEED!

AS GRANDMA SAID..."Debra! There are 9 ways to skin a cat...choose one, if that does not succeed, use the rest, to pass the test!

I MAKE SURE THAT I CALL HER EVERY WEEK, AND SEND HER B-D CARDS, AND POST CARDS EVERY YEAR, AND WEEK...I ONLY HAVE ONE MOTHER, AND ONE PARENT LIVING NOW...JULY 7TH...REMEMBERING DAD'S DEATH,

AND 3 DAYS LATER MOTHER'S BIRTHDAY!!! LIFE AND DEATH...THEY INTERTWINE....REGARDLESS, AND COUSIN... HE WAS WAY TOO YOUNG TO GO...BUT WHEN GOD SAYS...ENOUGH,,,ENOUGH!

Yesterday at church... was very enlighting...A HOLY GHOST MOMENT!

HAVE A CHOICE TO BE HAPPY...learn, earn, and know that there is a testimony...GET TO CHURCH FOLKES...or get to a Conference near you!

WOMEN NEED TO ALWAYS BE MOTIVATED, ELATED, AND C0NFIRMATED!!!

WOMEN NEED TO KNOW THAT THEY ARE APPRECIATED, AND CREATED, TO BE THAT WOMAN!

FOR HERSELF, AND DEFINITELY FOR HER KIDS...NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF A WOMAN..

.AND WOMEN...DATING,,,MUST WAIT...ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ARE BRINGING A FOREIGNER INTO YOUR NATION....NOTHING IS AS IT SEEMS.

Church was definitely the awakening as usual...guess that's the Elder's in me!

Raise a child the way it should go...and when it gets older...IT WILL NOT DEPART...ROOTED INSIDE...never run and hide, when God is in side...INSIDE THE HOLY HOUSE!

First, and foremost, I was elated to see our young adults face their challanges in higher education...

I could hardly stay in my seat...I felt overjoyed, and enthusiastic....because I know the hardwork the Mothers have put into this long journey, towards making sure that our children can and will receive their right to get an education, especially; higher education, and grad school, and a phd!

Yeah! You will be poor for a while...the struggling artist, college students, but in the longhaul...the riches will prove your worth in AU=GOLD. PATIENCE MY CHILD...PATIENCE.

I know...my TESTIMONY.... because I am one who works toward potential, power, prosperity, and peace of mind. I know because I knew my own calling in God, and the intellectual field of Education!

I know because whatever the issues, I can always go and take to God, no matter the time, no matter the test, no matter the circumstance!

Secondly, women who run out and date, and do not do their homework....working at home to solve the unsolveable problems...think they can date, and put all their baggage under the rug....HELLO!!!!

Children do not vanish...they need at least YOU...especially when the dad is not around...

YES! ENERGY IS SUCKED AND DRAINED EVERYDAY...but revatilizse yourself...hit the vitamins, start exercising, start something to save yourself first...these are the keys to longevity! Talk to many experinced women who got through this!!! Experience is the best teacher!!! WORD TO THE WISE!

Many Black women are dating, and forgetting their responsibilities of their families, raising kids, because many of use have not had a family called Mom and Dad...therefore, some women are still looking for Daddy in the wrong place.

Do not expect a perfect man...God never made perfect men; or women for that matter. Susubquently....you made your children..and now YOU...need to raise them.

They will reflect who you are...and I am not bashing DATING...it is a time and a place for everything under the sun....Displine your s*xaul appetite...this is what has gotten many of a female in this circumstance in the first place.

Next, another baby, by another man...who now careS nothing about you or the children you have previously. Now the kids suffer, you are still seaching for that void; empty gap being fulfilled..NOT HAPPENING!

Women...get yourself into a YOU...TRUE THING...Many a times a "MAN" cannot fill what is missing in your life...this is your responsibility!

I see many a change in many women who FIND THEMSELVES...FIRST! The men will not disapper, but you might!

STOP SEARCHING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES....(THAT COUNTRY SONG...RINGS LOUD....AND CLEAR...HA!)

REMEMBER THE GRASS ALWAYS LOOKS GREEN IN THE OTHER YARD...UNTIL YOU CROSS OVER INTO IT!

THINK BEFORE YOU LEAP...STILL WATER RUNS DEEP!
PEACE LOVE!

Posted By: Debra DeBerry
Monday, July 19th 2010 at 10:27AM
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