Kids and Credit Cards - How Young Is Too Young (413 hits)
By Anita Moore http://www.girl-friends.ning.com When should you give your kids a credit card? Should you wait until they're 18 and off to college? Or is younger better? This can be an explosive topic for parents, many of whom have very strong ideas about what's best for their teens when it comes to credit. A new ABC News poll found that 71 percent of parents are opposed to giving kids a credit card before the age of 18, even one that has a restricted balance and is linked to a parent's account."GMA" assembled a roundtable of moms and dads with children between 8 and 17, who were passionately divided about the topic. Some said children need to have access to credit to learn how to use it safely, while others were adamantly opposed to the idea. Most parents agree that kids should learn to save and budget and should earn their own money. But when adults are struggling with their own credit along with the increasing and complex material needs of children, it can be difficult to decide when to help them get plastic. What's the Appropriate Age? Mellody Hobson disagrees with the majority in the ABC News poll, and advises getting your child a credit card linked to your account at 16. She thinks 18 is too late because, at that point, you no longer have total control over your child's spending and credit habits. Parents should look at 16 as a milestone age, she says. We already equate turning 16 with getting a driver's license, 18 with the right to vote and 21 with the right to drink. Make 16 the age you start teaching your child about financial independence and responsibility. Benefits of Giving Your Teen a Card-You Can Monitor and Control Activity A credit card can give you some control over your child's spending and credit management skills, especially before they go off to college, Hobson says. You can discuss with them the proper way to use credit before they get a card of their own, kind of like credit with training wheels. You get to see all of your child's transactions in your monthly statement if they are an authorized user on your card, and you will be able to better recognize any impending issues and problems they might develop in the future. MY VIEWS: View the video and tell me what you think? Personally this has made me recognize that I can handle finances with my sixteen year old son differently. I’ve been holding a credit/debit card for him and when he gets paid, I would take a few dollars from him and match it and put it on his debit card for when he started college, but now I see that I need to give him the card so that he can learn how to handle his credit himself. Even though I still feel a child shouldn’t get a credit card until he has a job, this is a good eye opener. What’s your opinion? Kids Won't Have to Carry a Lot of Cash There's one other really big advantage to giving your 16-year-old a credit card, Hobson says. By giving your child a card, you're making sure they will not be carrying a ton of cash which can be very unsafe for them.
Sister Anita thanks for this blog because its definitely something for me to think about in the future.
Sister Greta, That's awesome that you are teaching your son about money and how it works, because kids don't get it in school. I wished that I'd had somone teach me early on, because I probably wouldn't have fallen prey to all those credit cards in college.
I think I had about 6-7 credit cards and was indebted before I graduated.
Tuesday, March 9th 2010 at 1:18PM
Jen Fad
I'm just seeing the video --- the parents are very explosive regarding their views,eh!
Tuesday, March 9th 2010 at 1:24PM
Jen Fad
Good Topic Anita. Everyone is not going to agree on everything. People are entitled to their opinions and beliefs. I gave my child a credit card at 12. Once I was comfortable knowing she knew her abc's and had her mathmatics down , its time to learn . With that credit card came some instructions, we are to learn what a APR {annual percentage rate is } vs. compounded daily. Whats the national interest rate vs. the interest rate being offered. If the National Rate is 4% why are you offering my child a 18% interest rate. Monthly bank statements and how to read them. The banks rip people off all the time with all the added on expenses that don't even have anything to do with the account. We fill out checks, and money orders. balance checkbooks. Giving a child a credit card and turning them loose , is dangerous. Giving them a credit card and instructing them on how the economic system works , is a Gift. Building a credit score and understanding how a credit score works, is very complicated. I'm teaching my child because no one taught me and I know how hard trying to figure out Life, can be.The biggest problem I see , is we allow others to tell Us how to raise our Children . Why are we holding our Children back , we are suppose to encourage them to explore, especially when we are their to monitor their actions . I know so many people who have messed their credit up because they don't know the credit process. So they put things in their childrens name. Phone , cable, etc...Our children will not be taught about Life in a Classroom , we must be the Teachers. And if you are not doing what I'm doing , My Child has an Advantage Over Yours. Right now is always the best time to do anything. What will the child do if something happens to you tomorrow. Prepare your children now, right now...
Tuesday, March 9th 2010 at 2:47PM
Christopher Cherry
Ms Greta and Ms Jen, I feel you both on this. How about coming out of college straight into marriage with 16 credit cards and after divorce getting stuck with them. It took me a life time to get this straightened out and I'm still working on it. My 29 year old, I felt was responsible enough at 16 to have her own card. My 28 year old didnt get one til college. Now my 16 year old is pretty responsible, until he goes to the mall with his friends. Thats why I was holding on to it. But I see I have to let go and let him learn what I have taught him. He has worked for me, seen my struggles,now has his own job, so like you ms Greta, I think he is ready. But no calling me from the mall with I see a pair of jeans, can I get it. Its can this fit into my budget or do I wait til next paycheck. Kids are smarter than we give them credit for.
Wednesday, March 10th 2010 at 7:38AM
anita moore
I hear you sister, and when you open, if I'm ever in your vicinity, I will sure have a service done. I'm tired of giving my money away. I still have my gift card from a spa here in Ga. from my daughter last mothers day.I guess I'll double up and take both my daughters this mothers day. They deserve it. Its time to give it to our own some of the time. Just give me a few years to completely get everything else under control. Like you Ms Greta, I have a lot of irons in the fire. Thanks for the comp Mr. Cherry. Good Luck with the book Ms. Greta. Don't forget to join me at my girlfriend network. I want to do more than post blogs. I want to show everyone that we African americans are a diverse population and we own things, and we're smart, we have something to offer, etc. Check me out http://www.girl-friends.ning.com. Post your business. Thanks!
Wednesday, March 10th 2010 at 9:02PM
anita moore