Are All Men Dogs?! Why Do I Attract or Stay with Losers?!
This sister is telling us how it TIS! Give a listen! Even though I'm much, much older than her I know personally that this is advice I needed. Actually even at my age I have no problems attracting men I just choose the wrong ones, however I am in the process of correcting that and now I'm dating a good Christian man. Hopefully an old woman like me still has a chance to find Love. I'm going to continue to work on myself so I can be an excellent Queen for my King.
Haggai 1:5 - 6, tells us to "consider your ways" to find the root of many problems. When I was hospitalized twice last year and during the course of going back and forth to the doctor over the last year I realized that I did not want to walk this path alone. I can’t do everything by myself and when you are ill sometimes you can’t do anything for yourself. You need a partner in life to rely on who will take care of you. As much as I love my cat Sylvester when I've been really ill he cannot wash, clean, cook or go to the store for me. I need a man for that. Also when it comes time to sharing ideas or dealing with life's drama Sylvester can only Meow. It is much better to have a man who can actually help me by making suggestions or offering advice.
I've finally come to the realization that the source of most of my relationship problems is me. Fortunately I've been able to break the bands of staying with men who verbally and emotionally abuse me. In previous relationships all the signs were there but I chose to ignore them. Naturally those decisions came back to haunt me. The last time I dated a man who tried to dominate me I cut the cord right away. Put distance between me and him. Just think if I had not I would have been in the same position I was in before and possibly dead!
Now I'm with someone who respects me and my ideas. Maybe we'll get married or maybe not but at least I know there are men out there who value me for me and are not trying to make me into their image like Pygmalion.
