When you are trying to teach those who are mixed up concerning the truth. For if you talk meekly and courteously to them they are more likely, with God's help, to turn away from their wrong ideas and believe what it true., 2 Timothy 4:25...let me simplify that statement for you...say it like my Grandma use too. "You catch more flies with honey then vinegar"...yes you do. Child, harsh words built up walls between others and you...and don't forget the Lord is listening too...scrutinizing the methods you use. So watch what you say...thou you may be right, it should be delivered in a loving and compassionate way...then commit it to God and pray...for Him to make it sink in...help them recognize they been living in sin. Only soft words can turn away wrath...set a man on a new and right path. Pass the honey test...child,