Chris Brown and Rihanna - Enough bashing both of them! I posted this on another site also
There are some preachy people out here. The thing to remember about Chris AND Rhianna is that they are human. They are young adults evolving into more mature adults. They will learn or not learn from all the mistakes along the way. Individually they both have to be able to look in the mirror in the morning and confront the person staring back at them. This is nothing new, it has been like this since the beginning of time, and some of you should go back to your mirrors and look again.
There are MANY things that people can do that are deemed unacceptable behavior, and I am sure a lot of people who have posted here have done something in their lifetime that was not right. I don't know, and the reason I don't know is because WE do not have our lives lived in the public eye. I have a friend whose husband was an abuser, she forgave him, they went to counseling, and it never happened again. The outcome can be different for someone else based on THEIR actions and how THEY take responsibility for their actions. I can't judge because I would do one thing different. The wonderful world of message boards came about and people use it to pass moral judgments on others, which is not the worse thing. The worse thing about it is that they pass harsh moral judgment freely. When did word come down that anyone besides GOD can judge and determine who should get forgiven for their wrong doing? What site is that written on?
Chris and Rhianna have both had to learn, or I hope they did, a lesson about what can happen when you do something without thinking. For them the reality is that when they do something deemed unacceptable, it isn't between them and GOD but apparently it is between The World, Them and then GOD based on all the judgments coming from people who are no more human or better than anyone else. And for the record I do not believe in domestic violence but I do believe in the First Amendment giving all of us the right to free speech. I just watch what I say and think others should do the same.
There are MANY things that people can do that are deemed unacceptable behavior, and I am sure a lot of people who have posted here have done something in their lifetime that was not right. I don't know, and the reason I don't know is because WE do not have our lives lived in the public eye. I have a friend whose husband was an abuser, she forgave him, they went to counseling, and it never happened again. The outcome can be different for someone else based on THEIR actions and how THEY take responsibility for their actions. I can't judge because I would do one thing different. The wonderful world of message boards came about and people use it to pass moral judgments on others, which is not the worse thing. The worse thing about it is that they pass harsh moral judgment freely. When did word come down that anyone besides GOD can judge and determine who should get forgiven for their wrong doing? What site is that written on?
Chris and Rhianna have both had to learn, or I hope they did, a lesson about what can happen when you do something without thinking. For them the reality is that when they do something deemed unacceptable, it isn't between them and GOD but apparently it is between The World, Them and then GOD based on all the judgments coming from people who are no more human or better than anyone else. And for the record I do not believe in domestic violence but I do believe in the First Amendment giving all of us the right to free speech. I just watch what I say and think others should do the same.
I hear they (Chris & Rihanna) are taking a break from their relationship.