Press Enter to search or select a section to narrow results

Posts by Member

Transcending Fear and Worry

We often hear people ask, “How can I get free of my troubles?” You are already free, you just don’t know it. This is the time of year when Christians all over the world are recognizing that Je

Janet Jackson · Friday, March 29th 2013 · 544 views · 1 comments

How to Relax in Stressful Situations

Stressed? Who isn't these days? It may seem like if it isn't one thing, then it's another. Right? However, just holding onto that type of thinking will stress you out. It's like expecting t

Janet Jackson · Wednesday, March 13th 2013 · 773 views · 1 comments

Love and Compatibility: How Do You Find It? 

When you find love, compatibility is just as important. They are not always the same. Failing to realize this is the reason why some people find themselves in emotional and/ or in physically abusive r

Janet Jackson · Wednesday, February 6th 2013 · 860 views · 1 comments

"I WON'T EVER TRUST A MAN AGAIN"

"I won't ever trust a man again." This is what one teenage girl told me. I volunteer teaching creative writing to incarcerated teen girls, and many of them have been abused or raped, and it of

Janet Jackson · Thursday, January 31st 2013 · 530 views · 1 comments

Having the Perfect Photo and Profile on an Online Dating Site Is Not Enough

One evening my husband and I watched a talk show on television. A segment came up with a young woman who had her profile on several dating websites for months, and she didn't get a single invitation

Janet Jackson · Wednesday, January 23rd 2013 · 495 views · 1 comments

How to De-Stress After an Argument

It can be difficult to de-stress after an argument, even if you have won your point. Your ego-mind constantly returns to the scene of the crime and combs through every agonizing detail and words said by you and the other party. When you recognize the ego's game is to protect itself, you ar

Janet Jackson · Thursday, January 17th 2013 · 639 views · 1 comments

Did Someone Say Something That Offended You?

We have all been hurt by the words of others if we are truthful with ourselves.Often we want to lash out at that person. However, when we are aligned with our true, powerful selves, we are not of

Janet Jackson · Tuesday, December 11th 2012 · 517 views · 1 comments

Self-Love Heals Difficult Love Relationships

When you are dealing with difficult people, it's hard to love them. However, that's the very thing that can help you overcome the challenge...    We're told many of the great spiritual masters and m

Janet Jackson · Friday, November 30th 2012 · 657 views · 1 comments

People Come Back Into Our Lives Like Betty White

This is the time of year people come back into our lives for a reason. Some you don't want to see. They show up with drama and they teach you something about yourself and life. Others you are thril

Janet Jackson · Wednesday, November 21st 2012 · 543 views · 1 comments

The Looming Fiscal Cliff Can Teach You How to Fly

So now that we have gotten past the election, and all the negative attack ads have stopped; you may have been hoping you could relax, even if you didn't vote for the President.  At least, the noise ha

Janet Jackson · Monday, November 12th 2012 · 581 views · 1 comments

The Looming Fiscal Cliff Can Teach You How to Fly

So now that we have gotten past the election, and all the negative attack ads have stopped; you may have been hoping you could relax, even if you didn't vote for the President.  At least, the noise ha

Janet Jackson · Monday, November 12th 2012 · 564 views · 1 comments

Resisting What Has Happened: Superstorm Sandy

We have been trying to make contact with family and friends on the east coast. Some we have located and others, we have not. Our minds question,”Are they stranded in their homes?” “Are they injured

Janet Jackson · Friday, November 2nd 2012 · 501 views · 1 comments

Do You Beat Yourself Up Over a Mistake? I Did

Recently I accidentally closed our electric gate on a friend’s car. She parked her new SUV in our driveway, so I could drive us to an event. From my vantage point, it appeared her car had cleare

Janet Jackson · Friday, October 26th 2012 · 636 views · 1 comments

How To Get Over Fear

We all have fears. Many fears are based on experiences from our past. We may feel that painful incidents will be repeated, or something worse will happen. Other fears are also projected onto

Janet Jackson · Thursday, October 18th 2012 · 505 views · 1 comments

The Debates In Your Head

The country is getting ready for the presidential debates. This reminds me of the debates constantly going on in our heads. Some of your topics may be: "Should I ___?" "Why can't I___?" "Will t

Janet Jackson · Tuesday, October 2nd 2012 · 455 views · 1 comments

Free Yourself: Let "Stuff" Go

When we hold onto to anything in life, there is pain. Life is about flow. Everything in our universe reminds us of that. Sun rise, sunset. Tide in, tide out. Seasonal and weather changes, including moving clouds. Relationships starting and ending. Sometimes we get so caught up in our

Janet Jackson · Thursday, September 27th 2012 · 981 views · 1 comments

Dealing with Those Frustrating People

It doesn’t matter if they are at work, home, or out in public. Some people can simply get on your nerves. You would think they would know better to do or say the things that they do. Possib

Janet Jackson · Thursday, September 13th 2012 · 516 views · 1 comments

What are You Identifying With? Past Pain or Your True Self?

“You were born with wings, why prefer to crawl through life?” ~Rumi Sometimes we make identities out of our past setbacks in life, and they become our "pain body." For the last few years on

Janet Jackson · Wednesday, September 5th 2012 · 504 views · 1 comments

Hurricane Issac and Inner Peace

Hurricane Isaac is crossing the states creating a lot of damage and heartache. Watching the video footage from Isaac, and thinking of our loved ones and friends who may be, or have been in harm’s w

Janet Jackson · Thursday, August 30th 2012 · 523 views · 1 comments

Am I Doing the Right Thing?

“Am I doing the right thing?” Photo by: Idea Go This is a typical question we ask ourselves. For many decisions to be made in lives, there simply are not clear, cut answers. Your mind know

Janet Jackson · Thursday, August 16th 2012 · 555 views · 1 comments

The Battle Within You

There is a place within you where there is perfect peace, happiness and contentment. Some call it, the Higher Self, God Self, the Universe, YHVH, Allah, or Beingness. It's known by many names thro

Janet Jackson · Tuesday, July 31st 2012 · 836 views · 1 comments

Happiness is In that Space Between Your Thoughts

The idea behind watching your thoughts is not just to be aware of the negative ones, and then suppress them, or ignore them, or try to fix them. When you do any of the above, you are setting yourse

Janet Jackson · Wednesday, July 25th 2012 · 514 views · 1 comments

Sometimes, You Just Have to Let Go

There are those times when everything seems an effort. Nothing seems to be working out. This is the time to stop, look and listen. It’s your sign to look beyond the surface of what is happening

Janet Jackson · Thursday, July 19th 2012 · 575 views · 1 comments

Are You Should-ing on Yourself…Again?

“I should have more money” “I should be healthy” “I should have the right job” “I should have my retirement in place” “I should be in school” “I should finish school” “I should be ma

Janet Jackson · Friday, July 13th 2012 · 586 views · 1 comments

The Frustrating Relationships Are the Ones We Need

This may sound crazy, ridiculous and far off the mark, but relationships are a reflection of what is going on inside of us. It’s easy to point the finger at others, and ignore our own faults. However, if we stop to inquire about what is upsetting us about someone, we can find they are reflecting

Janet Jackson · Thursday, July 5th 2012 · 1,570 views · 1 comments