Taken from main blog home 'What You Need A Greencard or Something?' Posted Tuesday, August 12th 2008 at 5:49AM by: Guest Visitor
...'I married a __________ man almost one year ago. We met online and dated long-distance here in the States. He admitted to me prior that he married another American and was paying her for the green card. Situation went bad and they separated, but she did not withdraw the petition. He also never received background clearance or the green card. He came to meet my family and we dated for six months long distance. Long story short...I quit a well established position and moved to him. We married and after a few months I filed a petition to support his green card. I recently found he had a_________ girlfriend and was trying to have a baby with her. The s*** "hit the fan" and he stopped seeing her. Of course the trust is gone. Since I now have a position in which I can work from home I have decided to move back to my home in another state. He, of course, supports this because he thinks he will have his cake and eat it. This is an educated man who makes sure I have access to material items, but obviously is looking for his country girl for a relationship. I truly believe he loves me, but is used to his country women and cannot be open to a woman with different cultures. It is unfortunate that most _________ men cannot be honest and do not value the love and trust they are given from their American wives..."
All I know is I don't do "green cards."
Monday, August 18th 2008 at 11:29AM
Marta Fernandez
well if jesus is not her personel savior she should acept him, and pray in let the Lord fight her battles, and give her strenght, in guidance on what is she should do. he may not come when you want, but he shall be right on time. that's only if she want sure results for now, and the future. or either go by the world standards, in put up wit it , get even, or just leave him the hell alone! or better yet get played why trying to play him either get physically hurt, or wait to he just leave you alone. think about it your chances or greater letting go, and let GOD,AND WATCH HIM DO HIM> WHY YOU KEEP THE FAITH GOD BLESS>
Monday, August 18th 2008 at 10:40PM
rita caston
Run as if you are in the olympics. Tell me why we as woman ignore big ass red flags! when he told you he was married for green, red, blue card that was GOD's first warning and something good for you should never cost you. Loving Jesus doesnt cost a thing so why should loving a man. dont get me wrong i have made my share of mistake and far from perfect now but my goodness honey you shouldnt be asking the question but telling us the lesson you learned. good luck
Wednesday, August 20th 2008 at 12:29AM
Quiana Bost
if you are blogging this matter, obviously you have decided to leave the ignorance alone, follow your rightful mind...real men are not hard to find, nor is there anything wrong with some me time anytime! leave.
