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What do you look for when choosing a man?
amount of money he makes
body type
His relationship with God.
intelligence
level of eduation
Looks
the relationship he has with his mother
type of car he drives
type of shoes he wears
where he lives

Do you first consider looks, his faith, intelligence or money...?
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Wednesday, August 27th 2008 at 4:58PM
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THERE IS NOTHING WORSE THAN TALKING TO AN OLD FOOL
Friday, August 29th 2008 at 11:04PM
Quiana Bost
Is he GOD fearing along w/A genuine feel and eye contact. For I know that we are not all perfect but if a perfect man/woman I could be I would be. Perfection is not required. However a striving spirt is!!
Tuesday, September 2nd 2008 at 10:50PM
Toni Stanford
well looks are first .. you both have to even " look " at one another when walking by, driving by, walking down the grocery store isle etc.. that is being realistic.. but after you have looked at someone and they open their mouth and it is like talking to a baphoon.... then all else will let you know..

but the important things will be different to everyone... to me faith is FIRST.. BUT i wont know what his faith is unless i take the time to stop and talk to him AFTER we have looked at each other first......

we kid ourselves so many times... we all want someone nice to look at BUT i dont want a prince on the outside and a demon on the inside.. but the APPEARANCE is what gets us to even STOP..... even in the word of God.. it even talks about appearance.... because its important...

shun the very appearance of evil.. and dont let your good be evil spoken of can also tie in with that..

we wont KNOW if he or she has all of these qualities until we take the time out and stop and talk to the man or woman that " caught our eye"" as saints of God... i want us all to be more real and less deep when it comes to relationships....

now when you have been friends with someone over the years and you never looked at him or her that way.. then that is a perfect example of when looks dont matter because you already know that person.. they may not be brad pitt or denzel washington in the face but their HEART IS LIKE KING DAVID........

we SHOULD ALL want something to last not to feel good for the moment's sake..
Tuesday, September 9th 2008 at 12:42PM
V. D. Coleman
I look for character, consideration and integrity. I cannot take looks to the inner space of my broken heart; therefore, I must first see honesty and not deceit. Finances are surely an issue because once married I cannot take thrills to the bank!
Monday, October 27th 2008 at 4:05PM
Elaine TaylorBrown
faith is most important, with faith wisdom, once again an old dummy is the worst kinda dummy. (LOL)
Sunday, November 9th 2008 at 5:28PM
Quiana Bost
When there is a relationship with GOD - it makes a difference with the person all the way around!
Thursday, January 8th 2009 at 1:59PM
evelyn thompson
This reminded me of the Tyra Show, she had a psychologist on who confirmed first comes lust, then attraction, then love, not attraction then lust, as we may have believed. However when choosing a partner, I value his intelligence most. I'm attracted to those I can learn from.
Thursday, February 12th 2009 at 2:09AM
Maryanne Campbell
Leadership, security, and love.
Saturday, August 15th 2009 at 7:57PM
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