Why are some parents so quick to want to beat down or curse out a teacher???? (490 hits)
I challenge all African Americans to do something positive for an African American foster child today! Again, I dare you! Ever heard of respite, or big brothers/big sisters. Come on, lets work on rebuilding our village. In addition, all of you parents out there who are ready to curse out an adult, especially a teacher, for correcting your child for something ignorant he/she has done, ought to stop and take note. What are you teaching him/her (your child). You are just setting them up to learn how to disrespect authority, which could in-turn lead them to incarceration, or worse one day. Stop the madness. There were times when I wanted to ring a teacher's neck, but no way on earth did I give my children a hint that I was angry with the teacher. I scheduled a meeting with the teacher alone, without the child. Yes, I voiced how I felt about the situation and if I felt my child was not wrong, I had not problem saying it, however, if my child was wrong, my child had to pay the price. I never went to the school to beat down or curse out the teacher for doing something I did not agree with. I handled the situation like an adult. If the teacher did not answer the way that I agreed with, or expected, I went higher up. I did whatever was necessary. I did it in a way to set a good example for my children. I am so sick and tired of some of these mothers pulling the ghetto, neck rolling attitudes. Please, we are better than that. I am sure you want your children to be better than that as well. Think... be proactive and not reactive. Look it up!
What's the 1st step?
Tuesday, July 8th 2008 at 2:18AM
Virgie unknown
I'm interested in the foster care program. how can i find a foster child?
Tuesday, July 8th 2008 at 7:01AM
Will Moss
I was a Big Sister when I moved to Miami. the little girls name was Sanya and I always called her "a sony of my owny". However, her mother became very intemidated with what my family was offering her and made sure to break off the relationship. We offered her fun, travel, cultural events, often extending them to the other and borther. If you become involed with a person, please make sure the parents are on board 200% before you become attached to the child. To this day, I would like to know what hapened to her.
Tuesday, July 8th 2008 at 7:00PM
Kym Horsey
Hi Sis, welcome to HBCU. I commend You on what you do. Just want to encourage and give crediit where it is due (Pro 3:27-28). Keep up the great work. I want to wish You the best this site as to offer as I have been Blessed with. Welcome to HBCU. God Bless Sincerest William
p.s. Long story, I grew up in foster care on and off between the ages of 5-17. There are others here who have as well. I will be sharing those experiences in my 1st Book.
Wednesday, July 9th 2008 at 10:17AM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III