Oprah, there are PLENTY of good black men who are waiting on a beautiful black woman. If they love, adore, and desire a good black man we are waiting on them. Where are we...all over the place but women must LEAVE THEIR HOUSE to find us. We hang out a sports bars, business sections of all cities (Especially lunch time and after work mixers), church, and gyms. My advice...don't say we aren't out here because it will be a self-fulfilling prophecy. We are here and in BIGGER numbers than people want to give credit for. Besides, you only need ONE Black Man to marry any way. Come get us...but be NICE...no attitudes allowed (Smile)
Dr. Alduan Tartt Relationship & Dating Advice Doctor Psychologist, Speaker, & Author www.drtartt.com Tuesday, July 8th 2008 at 11:15AM
Alduan Tartt
Hello, there! This is Theresa McMiller reading your comment. Now, aren't you the cutest thing! LOL! You give me hope that there's a decent Black man. Speaking for myself, I don't usually go after men. I'm too old school for that. I've been told by my elders if man is interested in you, you are the one that should make the move. I want to love a man but, he has to understand that I am independent minded and I have my own beliefs and opinions. Never try to control me or use me. That is so 1950 and archaic. Another one is: What you see is as exactly what you get. If you are hung up on a pretty face and figure and not focused on a woman's godly character, go find Tyra Banks and ask her to marry you. Now, if you're none of these things, by all means, you can flirt with me. Smile.
Monday, August 4th 2008 at 2:48PM
Theresa McMiller
There were alot of good points made.
Monday, August 4th 2008 at 6:08PM
Melantha Nelson