"Listening to others problems, complaints and grudges is really okay, but when you have God's peace centered in you, you really have the okay to let go and let God! God's peace will allow you to be free. He'll make your peace with Him spotless.
Hence, beloved ones, since you are awaiting these things, do your utmost to be found finally by him spotless and unblemished and in peace." 2 Peter 3:14NWT
Think on this: Pray for others who haven't the meditated peace of God. Encourage them that God's peace is their freedom to let all those problems really go and God will supply their answers.