Giving birth is a miracle and there's no question about it. I see at least one to two expectant mothers daily. There was once a time though that if a woman wasn't married giving birth, or being an expectant mother brought a shame to the family. Over the years, that's almost like a vapor of time gone away and seems not too likely to be returning. I however, still uphold in my moral mind that any woman and man expecting should be married, but I know not everyone thinks this way at all. Just two nights ago, I saw a beautiful baby girl and the couple unmarried; but I pondered on it for a few moments what has happened when the young man married his expected mother of his children. Giving birth is shared in a union of two people. I think the whole situation is totally reversed. Now couples give birth never marry, and even separate or break-up with children left in the middle of never having both their natural parents around. It's a true life situation and it's more and more commonly known right where I live. Giving birth is a miracle, but giving of both parents is a miracle too. I don't know perhaps the old ways need to be reviewed and renewed. In my own opinion when there's a new birth-- marriage and morals need return to an old perception before babies are born.
Great input Irma. Babies are beautiful, and of course ; confidence in yourself is all encouraged over a bad marriage, or a even worst divorce. One should choose to marry as equally yoked as possible, this I certainly agree. I feel the morals of being marriage should come before giving birth. However, I'm inclined to follow spiritual morals which are backed by God. It's my nature to be in tune as much as possible with Divine authority which righteous governs childbirth, marriage --which He teaches how children should be born.
Friday, July 13th 2012 at 11:51AM
MIISRAEL Bride
I have never given birth nor have I ever been pregnant, but I believe people should be married before bringing forth a child in this world. For the life of me I cannot understand why couples of today are bearing children without the benefit of marriage, or why a man would not do for his child because he and the mother does not get along.
I mean if the man understands that this is his seed you would think that would be important enough. Especially when the seed is a girl because most girls have that daddy’s little girl’s syndrome. We see far too often that a lot of girls grow up looking for that daddy in all the wrong ways. We talk about prevention but how far in advance do we prepare? I just don’t think a man or woman should abandon their child/children because of not getting along. If children are that easy or unimportant than why hasn’t the Creator given up on us?
Irma, this such a broad subject of discussion and can taken into many directions as the world has it now. Women can be virgins through artifical insemenation and give birth, and as the world would have. It's true; you can choose to have it your own way --and it's your life to make one own decisions, and in addition; even choices of these can also turn out badly. In all the formations of giving birth; again-- for those who rather take the spiritual view, they maintain keeping the ways God would have it. In even being governed by Divine power over their marriage and children. It could very well be said that marriage can ONLY be regulated "from a far" because of the divinity involved; if women, men and children have taken to choose a higher power over themselves. Not to say; it is will all be a perfect ride, but it will be a perfect selection which God approves. Lifestyles for them is the divine way to follow.
Then there isn't it much analysis on why are marriages have been or are going bad? What is lacking that makes such a sacred vow and birth a curse? One may think it is a most one powerful God that is absent in today's choices of marriage and birth. Women have proven they are strong.
Like you have given other views, there are still other views as for those women never wanting to marry, or bare children. Or women wanting children, but no marriage. Look how far this discussion can have many venues. I'm wanting to make it known though, that my way in mind is godly. Men and women often choose what they want for themselves and in somewhat of a curse have they have cursed themselves...
What a great topic, though it's broad there may be some relative reasoning which may be grasped to consider what we do with our bodies are not always good at all. We need more of godly ways too. Great topic, and I value your comments, always. Give more..
Oh, another thing too Irma, oftentimes women have chose abortions because of their own reasoning and even in rape as you mentioned some abortions have taken place, as well as birth. Truly, thousands upon thousands are pro-life regardless of any situation of cause. Interesting.
Saturday, July 14th 2012 at 8:21AM
MIISRAEL Bride
Get rest. And you'll find our prayers.
Sunday, July 15th 2012 at 8:07PM
MIISRAEL Bride
...AND, DON'T FORGET, "i" WAS MARRIED, I WAS A DEVOTE CATHOLIC, I WANTED TO HVE CHILDREN, BUT MY BODY AT 5 MONTHS WOULD REJECT THE PREGANCY AS I HAVE (LIKE TOUSANDS OF OTHER WOMEN) A DEFICTED CERVIX...MY MOTHER WAS ACTUALLY MY COUSIN LIFE EXPERIENCES SHOULD ALWAYS GO TO TEACH US WE CAN NOT SOCIALIZE, RATIONALIZE REALITY WE MUST ACCEPT THE T-R-U-T-H...
MOTHER MARY'S CHILD JESUS WAS NOT THE PRODUCT OF HER MARRIED PARTENR AND LOOK HOW WE SOCIALIZED TIS CHANGE AS I HAVE NEVER HEARD JESUS CALLED A BASTARD AND HE WAS A HUMAN BEING WAS HE NOT? (NUP/SMILE)
..OH AND IN TH EREAL WORLD BECAUSE EACH OF MY PREGANCYS CAUES AN OPERATION AT AGE 21 I COULD NOT EVEN QUALIFY FOR LIFE INSURANCE AND THANKGOD MY HUSBAND WAS MILITARY AS INSURANCE OR EVEN BEING ABLE TO BE MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN IS CONCERNED...
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
...It is just too bad also we tend to belief taht life ends at birth of that child...who or how many of these children go to bed hungry, can't get proper health care, education ect. but then this is where we tend to say "Bad God", right anothe thing that buggs me to no end. (nup)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
...this has been an extra trying week and I so look forward to our prayer group tomorrow...lov ya all. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
"I" am so glad to sAY THAT i HAVE never seen a presious baby not being seen as just that...a precious baby...
and being me, I will add...the only way to get a divorce is to first be married, and please, please, please don't ever believe you need to be married to be some body or be the best person you can be. or allow public opinion to choose your marriage partner(smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
Wake up world...women today can choose to have 'virign' births' if they choose to do so...
and, marrage is like any thing else...it can be a blessing or it can be a curse just ask the sons in prison ofr killing their married fathers for hurting their moms...husbands and wives in prison fo rkilling their married partners...lets wake up to the real world where marriage is a curse/ blessing and not something that can be regulated from a far!!!(nup/smile)
anyone ever heard of rape?!? so sorry just me again looking at things form all sides.lol...
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
FULL CONFESSION...
BECAUSE THE POWERS THAT BE KNOW OUR PREACHERS AND OUR MOTHERS ARE OUR MOST POWERFUL SURVIVAL TOOLS TIS MARRIAGE AND CHIL D BULL FALLS SQUARELY ON THE FEMALE AND WE USE IT TO BE OUR OWN WORT ENEMY AND IT REALLY AND TRUELY GETS TO ME ON A PERSONAL LEVEL!!!...
AGAIN FULL CONFESSION (S-M-I-L-E)
..AND, PLEASE LOOK UP YOUR HISTORY AND LEARN HOW BEING MARRIED WAS SO BAD FOR US UNTIL ABOUT THE 30S...AND IN SOME CASES IN 2012...
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
