Seduced By The Fantasy of the Romantic Fairy Tale (491 hits)
Thank You to all the Beautiful Women and their Wonderful emails, it shows that Some Women are taking the Necessary Steps to Improve Attractiveness. If you would like to share your story , you can reach us at sircherry@live.com. In our last blog we talked about How Women are unaware of the fears Of Men to Approach Women . Now today we are going to talk about the Fairy Tale Romance. If you are leaving your future and chances of Romance to the hands of fate, Good Luck. This doesn't work for Champions because Champions know they have to put in the work to get the desired results. Romantic Fairy Tales are the ones we create in our minds, the ones that are absent in present reality. We sit and dream of Far Away places with exotic and sensational names but this is just a figment of our imagination. In order to Live Life , we have to participate in it. I want to share this with you because its so common in todays society ,plus the minds of people. Something psychologists call a “complex equivalence.”
What’s that you say? Simply this: a complex equivalence means a person takes a set of events and makes them mean something completely different, even though the meaning has nothing to do with reality. Then they take action based on the meaning they created in their heads, not reality.
Let me give you an example—it will make this more clear. My friend Bob told me a story about a married couple he knew.
It wasn’t a good marriage, with the husband always cheating on the wife. She didn’t want to leave him, but she wanted the cheating to stop. So, she went off the pill (without telling him) and got pregnant. Her thinking went, “If we have a child, he’ll stop cheating on me.” Of course this is NOT what happened… she had a child and he cheated on her as much as he did before.
Her complex equivalence was this: having a child=no more cheating. She created this complex equivalence in her mind, and took the action of getting pregnant, based on the meaning she created.
She acted out of a complex equivalence, and, as usually happens, the results were devastating. She had a child to raise with a cheating husband. This was her new reality that was created, and now she was worse off.
If you stop and think about this, it makes no sense in reality. But that’s the point I’m trying to make here: very few people make decisions based on reality. They make decisions based on complex equivalences they create in their heads… We are offering Women a New and Proven Approach to a Fairy Tale Romance but we can't make that decision for you, you have to make that choice yourself. We look forward to hearing from You but if you are like the rest of the women we really don't expect to hear from you because To Be A Champion requires Action. Light, Cameras, Action!!! You can reach us at sircherry@live.com Ask about our newsletter , its jam packed with Wonderfully Exciting Adventures for those that want a Lifestyle Change.
