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Ex-Free Key One: Make Pain Your New Best Friend (588 hits)

The actual breaking of any body part is painful, especially the heart. However, in the case of heartbreak, the lock that keeps us trapped is we forget that pain is not the problem. Pain is merely a sensation that is present to remind us there is a problem.

Of course, no one wants to be reminded of his or her problems. This is exactly why most people usually do anything but deal with the problem in order to get rid of their pain. Problems are meant to be solved. Solving problems are a large part of our learning and growth process.

Unfortunately, learning certain lessons in life can be a painful experience, but again, the pain isn’t the problem. Learning the lesson is the problem. In other words, when you learn the lesson, you solve the problem and you’re then free to move forward. Why am I asking you to make pain your new best friend?

Read more in Ex-Free: 9 Keys to Freedom After Heartbreak available for Instant Download at www.troybyer.com or hard copy via Amazon.com
Posted By: Troy Byer
Friday, August 14th 2009 at 9:39AM
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..."In other words, when you learn the lesson, you solve the problem and you’re then free to move forward"...

I couldn't agree with you more. Wow and what a powerful insight!
Friday, August 14th 2009 at 12:02PM
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