Never make someone a priority when they only make you an option.. (519 hits)
The Person Who Says It Can't Be Done, Should Not Stop The One's Doing It. Don't Cry Because it's Over, Be Glad It happened....Never Make someone a priority when they only make you an option..
Glad to see another year.. I'm extremely Blessed B. A. D. Blessed And Delivered. Be careful how you treat others.
Quote of the day: "Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater… If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She will enhance and magnify what is given to her… So, if you give her even a little crap, be ready to receive a ton of stuff! Dreams are just dreams. A goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline. Remember Life is a school and you are here to learn. TRY to pass all your test.. PROBLEMS are simple part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like Algerbra class BUT the lessons you learn will last a lifetime." The only things in life you should regret are the risks you didn't take. Don't worry about the people in your past, there's a reason they didn't make it to your future. There is no formula for success but there is a formula for failure:, and that is trying to please everyone
Four things you can't recover: The stone.....after the throw.. The word........after it's said. The occasion.....after it's missed. The time........after it's gone.
Mid-Life Reflections or Fifty and Loving Every Moment If you think you have questions about where your life is headed at 30 or 40, wait until you get to be 50 like me! Sometimes I wonder if I am having a mid-life crisis or is this just the onset of menopause. My 50th Birthday Celebration was the Happiest weekend ever. However whenever you hit those birthdays with zeros behind them you think back on where you’ve been and where you are going and believe me we are all going somewhere whether you have goals or a plan to implement them. After the Joy of the Birthday cake, balloons, flowers and gifts reality began to set in. I said to myself here I am at fifty still single. At times the thought occurs to me, “Am I past my prime” but I know the answer to that is a resounding, No! When I was in my 20s and early 30s marriage was never a priority with me because I was career driven, plus at the time my parents were alive. My Mom and Dad were my support system. I dated but did not want any commitment and unlike most women I never really had the desire to have children. I do love children but not enough to have my own. I felt joy in interacting with my cousins children and that was enough for me because I knew if they became unruly I could always give them back! After both my parents died then I felt the loneliness and emptiness of not having a loving relationship. These feelings led me into abusive relationships with men, one of which lasted 7 years. Fortunately he left me and I felt a burden lift off my shoulders. Ladies, men are not a support system. Sooner or later those handsome roughnecks, players and hoodrats abuse you or leave you for a younger model. Of course I still want a life partner but I date very selectively and carefully. Been celibate for over two years, difficult but this time period has been the most creative for me in a long time. Right now my priorities are my academic, personal and intellectual pursuits. As a result I have different requirements of what I want in a man. Also I notice as I have gotten older men of other races are attracted to me. I realize I have got to get beyond the outside package and look within if I ever expect to receive a mate. I Love my cat Sylvester but I know that I cannot spend the next ten years talking and sleeping with him! Another pleasant aspect of being a receiving that power and self-confidence that comes with middle-age or menopause is that I find men are more attracted to me than ever. It has got to be the way I carry myself. Of course I take care of myself and keep myself looking good. But I believe that men of other races, cultures and older men start to look beyond the outside package to see what the woman is about. Even if I am in pain I always try to have a smile on my face and project a positive image. I walk with my head held high and concentrate on my future goals, plans, ambitions and objectives not the current situation. If you have something to aspire to you can survive a temporary setback. Plus I am Blessed because other than having high blood pressure which is controlled through diet and medicine I am a very healthy woman. I very seldom get colds or headaches. Only sometimes menstrual cramps. So my overall health is excellent. However even being a part of the dating scene I know that my real love affair is with Jesus Christ! Jesus is my reason for life. In Him I live and move and have my being. The Joy of the Lord is my strength!
