When you look in the mirror, do you like what you see? Regardless of our success level there's some sort of feeling of low self worth, the key to overcoming such a thing is to not compare yourself to anyone esle because you will always compare their great feature to your.. If I do say myself, that's unfair from the beginning.. Let's hold our heads up high and show the world that our worth level is most powerful & greater than ever before..
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Ideally, a healthy self-image should begin development when we're children. But few of us get this critical training from anyone skilled at teaching it. So almost everyone you'll ever meet has tremendous deficiencies when it comes to how they see themselves... and their actions reflect it.
Friday, February 20th 2009 at 11:53PM
Dr. Teresa Tee Bolden
Self-esteem and self-worth though part of the same perception are exclusive you can have a one and not the other or be unfulfilled in both.
Saturday, February 21st 2009 at 11:48AM
Marta Fernandez
...because who you believe you are is the foundation for everything you will do and experience in your lifetime.
...because you evaluate all you see and do through "self-esteem-colored" glasses.
I have clients who are multi-millionaires, admired, famous, attractive, powerful...
But in spite of all their outer "success," many have felt unfulfilled, empty, unworthy of their accomplishments... in therapy and on heavy anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds.
You see, the outer stuff does not and can not give you a truly healthy self-image.
Nor can it give you happiness or peace of mind.
And in so many ways, a poor self image can literally prevent you from achieving and even setting goals that could make your life an accomplishment-filled wondrous adventure.
Your self-esteem is an ever flowing reflection of what you think about yourself on the inside and what you do on the outside.
And without high (or healthy) self-esteem, you could have many types of outer success and lucky breaks, but be one tragedy or mishap away from a complete emotional breakdown... even suicide. You may not even be a person that many people enjoy being around.
Ideally, a healthy self-image should begin development when we're children. But few of us get this critical training from anyone skilled at teaching it. So almost everyone you'll ever meet has tremendous deficiencies when it comes to how they see themselves... and their actions reflect it.
Are you just sitting and waiting for life to come to you? With that approach, you're not going to like much of what comes your way.
Instead, step forward with enthusiasm and meet each day with positive and eager anticipation. That way, you'll put life solidly on your own terms.
The more responsibility you're willing to take, the more control you'll have over the world around you. Be decisive and proactive, and events will more often unfold in your favor.
Make use of each moment to give something meaningful to life. Fill your thoughts and actions with substance, and you'll fill your life with great treasures.
Get up, get out there, and immerse yourself in the richness of being. The positive contributions you make will come back to you again and again in delightfully unexpected ways.
There is a whole world of abundance and fulfillment just waiting to be explored. Step forward and discover even more of what it means to be you.
