I am a single brother with no children from New York originally. However over the past few years I have resided in Hawaii/Texas. I have seen alot of sisters who say they are looking for a good brother and most even go as far as revealing there intent in wanting a lasting relationship. However I have also noticed that when in conversation with me,( as I tend to go a little bit in depth) they prefer to be with a brother who is in the game. The brother who hangs out late with his homies after work, or watches alot of sports or even takes them out every now and then. I use to be in that game but now I am into real life relationships. The type where I spend quality time getting to know her, writing poetry( I had one woman say I was soft because I wrote poetry, her lost) walking on the beach holding hands, cuddling up next to a warm fireplace or picnics. Yes I am seaerching for a woman that has inner lasting qualities, a woman who is not afraid of enjoying life beyond the movies or television. So as a single brother out of the game I say this.," If you are tired of being with a brother in the game, then take a look at the brother out of the game."
You sound like a really nice guy....Too bad that is not what women want...They want a CHALLENGE
Monday, February 9th 2009 at 8:23PM
Nile Morris
Wow... I think you should ask God, if you are a believer or ask the Universe, if you aren't, for the type of woman you are looking for, with a detailed description... I'm sure God or the Universe will respond to your request. Also, I have to ask what is the disposition of these women you say want a brother in the game? Are those the type of women you are attracted to? I think all too often people get caught up with external or surface qualities of an individual, for example, maybe these sisters are beautiful, s*xy, single, no children, a great job, status, etc., etc., but they lack the internal qualities you desire, such as wit, romance or sensuality, etc., etc. I'm not saying you can't find the complete package, a woman with the external and internal attributes you are looking for, like I said ask God or the Universe. But sometimes, I think it's important to not get caught up on external or surface features, you might find a beautiful, s*xy, sensual woman with kids, or a fairly attractive woman with the wit and romantic qualities you desire. I think it's important to decide on the qualities most important to you, when choosing a mate, and maybe setting some priorities, for example, is beauty more important to you than intelligence?
Monday, February 9th 2009 at 8:57PM
Maryanne Campbell
Perhaps you need some quick points if you haven't dated on a regular basis? Being 'out of the dating scene' can cause people to be boring and rusty. Maybe this is what the women you have dated have noticed about you.
I have nothing bad to say about you and wish you the best of luck, but perhaps advertising on a site doesn't imply that you're really out of the game. You may not be in the streets, but this site is seen by a lot of women. ...just a thought.
Tuesday, February 10th 2009 at 6:48PM
Kenya Wilson
