What do you look for when choosing a man?

THERE IS NOTHING WORSE THAN TALKING TO AN OLD FOOL

Is he GOD fearing along w/A genuine feel and eye contact. For I know that we are not all perfect but if a perfect man/woman I could be I would be. Perfection is not required. However a striving spirt is!!

well looks are first .. you both have to even " look " at one another when walking by, driving by, walking down the grocery store isle etc.. that is being realistic.. but after you have looked at someone and they open their mouth and it is like talking to a baphoon.... then all else will let you know..

but the important things will be different to everyone... to me faith is FIRST.. BUT i wont know what his faith is unless i take the time to stop and talk to him AFTER we have looked at each other first......

we kid ourselves so many times... we all want someone nice to look at BUT i dont want a prince on the outside and a demon on the inside.. but the APPEARANCE is what gets us to even STOP..... even in the word of God.. it even talks about appearance.... because its important...

shun the very appearance of evil.. and dont let your good be evil spoken of can also tie in with that..

we wont KNOW if he or she has all of these qualities until we take the time out and stop and talk to the man or woman that " caught our eye"" as saints of God... i want us all to be more real and less deep when it comes to relationships....

now when you have been friends with someone over the years and you never looked at him or her that way.. then that is a perfect example of when looks dont matter because you already know that person.. they may not be brad pitt or denzel washington in the face but their HEART IS LIKE KING DAVID........

we SHOULD ALL want something to last not to feel good for the moment's sake..

I look for character, consideration and integrity. I cannot take looks to the inner space of my broken heart; therefore, I must first see honesty and not deceit. Finances are surely an issue because once married I cannot take thrills to the bank!

faith is most important, with faith wisdom, once again an old dummy is the worst kinda dummy. (LOL)

When there is a relationship with GOD - it makes a difference with the person all the way around!

This reminded me of the Tyra Show, she had a psychologist on who confirmed first comes lust, then attraction, then love, not attraction then lust, as we may have believed. However when choosing a partner, I value his intelligence most. I'm attracted to those I can learn from.

Leadership, security, and love.