Dear blackinamerica.com, i found my wife having an online affair, i am devastated
Hi everyone, I knew something was up with my wife, acting different. Well I decided to look in her emails one night and found all the messages from the past year of my wife chatting with not one but several guys. They meet up to have cyber s*x. By the way a few of these men are married also. She mentions to one of the men she chats with how he is her soulmate, thinking of ways for them to meet and for me not to know. The lust she has for him, how she thinks of him all the time, waits for his emails at work, cries over him, it was devastating to read. We have been married for many years and have a son together and now she is throwing all this away. If someone can relate with me on here, I would love to chat, I have all the emails to show as proof. I have all the discussions of how they want to be together, the s*x talk everything. I am heart broken, devastated and the sadness I feel for my son who will now probably end up in a broken home as I don't think this marriage will be saved as it seems I am not the one she loves.
Regards

DAMN this is a sad story ,,,this on line relationships are destroying marriages ,and what the hell is cyber s*x ,is this a new form of playing with yourself call me old fashion but i would never allow myself to get caught up in this kind of madness and the man was married or is married ,, so she was some kind of freak and here husband could not make her happy emotionally or s*xually seems like !
I was just reading a thread about this member was talking about oral s*x and how to get down then i though to myself , this guy goes around this site talking about how he loves his wife and how he just got a new home at the same time he is talking to a almost stranger about oral s*x TMI ,,,THAT is a total disrespect to his wife and there new marriage ,**** just got real ,,,I consider this a stright up violation of any marriage /relationship and anyone that does it is a out right s*xually perverted fool !