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Men and Women living life without Real love

cherrie holton · Thursday, May 12th 2011 at 9:54AM · 71 views
@ all those that think all men/women cheat- NOT! When you date out of not knowing, longing for something real but know its wrong, hurt, whoredom and anger-you get what you get. For women that stay with cheaters/beaters/users-maybe because they are getting money or they have fallen in love with them and always thinking its going to get better and always that excuse they just don't care because they goin do their thing too.
Men may stay with cheaters/users/and abusers because they are already involved with another or others, they just wanna hit it cause they like it, they are wearing blinders because she feedn him real good (all ways) and she show him that attention he's needing.
However, know that in the long run a lot of people suffer and miss out because of YOUR decision to stay stuck on stupid. We involve families, children, mainly ourselves, the heart, the mind, the emotions.
We as human beings find it so easy to blame it on the other person the whole society of the opposite s*x. Why? Because we now feel we have been made a fool of and its easier to say, "all women are whores and users or all men are dogs-they gonna always cheat". Not so, we are too scared to say, "man, I was a fool I messed up, her/his stuff was soo good and he/she gave it to me every time I wanted it. He/she sleep with me every nite and we were always together so they can't be messing over me. Or they buy and give me everything I want or need". Love is money, n money is not always. WE close our eyes and forget about that time he/she came in rushed to take a bath because they were just with the other person or the time they got that hour sickness so they didn't show up for that important events that was planned for months and disgusted it day before but... Or that time they started that argument and you know you didn't do or say anything wrong but asked that question, "hey babe, what did you do today or how was your day". Lol then they say why you always! Are when we want to spend time but there time is already spent. Blinders/Denial guys and we ALWAYS blame the opposite s*x. Not I, every man has to prove himself. Said it before, iv been raped but every man isn't a rapist! I've been taken for money but every man not a hustler. And the list goes on. Finally, its a shame we in a society were a woman is made to feel she have to give up a beautiful body of a Queen for a couple of dollars, meal, a show, hell a piece of hair to put in her hair! I'm simple because life is simply. You're in the rat race? Remove yourself. I love you for life because life is love, love is more than anything you can desire in this world and it brings about everything else that is good and pure.
Its Crazy,if you see a friend in need, you help,don't let them suffer. Give advise, encourage them, enlighten them with wholesome truths. If your story isn't the best use someone else's story to help both them n urself. Beside it is the loser who always remember at the end of the day that their well ran dry and she/he was one of the best things that ever happened to you. I'm a diamond n the won't burn BUT trash does every time. Then we/ they decide to move on the other play the "I can't get hurt". Hurt come in many ways and the heart is the worst. Love for real stay conscious of your mom or dad. If you cheat, you are a liar and if you lie, you're capable of anything. Think people before you lose. Lose both your friends n your life to a distorted illusion of "not letting anyone in because I don't need or want anybody" or "loves just not for me" or "they will hurt more than I will" or "I'm going to get them before they get me". Life is a simple story and I'm writing it, "From Broken Pieces To Miracles" (c). Love for the simple things, respect because honor is due give because its mandated and trust so you can walk without fear. Peace~Queen

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cherrie holton cypress, TX

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