What would you choose: love or security?

What is more important to you as an African-American woman, if you could only choose one component of a relationship: Security or Love?

Security defined as having enough resources to sustain your livelihood or to survive comfortably, material wise, i.e. shelter, clothes, food, the tangible, etc.

Love defined as having emotional stability and warmth, and all those qualities encompassing whatever you’d ascribe love to be, i.e. a feeling, the intangible, etc…