ADMINISTRATOR OF THIS SITE PLEASE BAN MEN!!!

I agree. When I joined this site it was for the purpose of networking with like-minded professional women, that were about lifting and empowering each other. I didn't know this was a dating site. If this continues,I will also be deleting my account.

I hear you Antoinette! I love how you wrote that with such passion. Our purpose here is to socialize and network among our fellow career driven African American women. Well that's why I joined anyway.

This is an actual private message that was in my email box this morning. I did not edit, I just copied and paste. To save the individual the embarassment I replaced his name with x's.

Hello,
How are you doing?I'm xxxxxxxxx,New on Here and I took a chance to go through the profiles on here when i came across yours on here,Its was Really interesting and the sweet smile on your pic looks so attracting, so i decide to hit you up with this note.I will like to start by telling you a little about myself,Am a humble,caring,loving and also honest young man.Am 26 yrs old truning 27,Am About 6.0 feet tall,little bit fair in complexion,black hair,big eyes and also in the university offering accounting and will be granduating in about two years time.I have Never been married and also not in any form of relatonship now But am also willing to be in a long lasting friendship leading to a loving and also a sweet relationship which is married.I will also like to get to know a little about yourself too if you dont mine.I would describe myself as a man with whom it is interesting to communicate, who is sincere and at the same time mysterious,Am like unread book – you will never find out what it is about until you turn the next page.Hope to read from you soon.

AMEN to that...I think there are some PREDATORS amongst these men that join..they don't seem to give way to RESPECT that we women can't have our own lil' network away from all the other radical websites' they just follow like the vultures of WILD KINGDOM....i say if this kind of thing escalates...i will deleting my account.

At your request ladies: his name is Samuel Jackson

His name is probably NOT Samuel Jackson. He may simply play him on television. LOL!

But seriously, this is supposed to be a safe haven where we can network amongst ourselves as women do indeed have unique styles of communicating. We are of the world but we are also sisters amongst one another.

Can't we have this? Shucks! FaceBook is NOT even remotely bad as this portal in terms of getting 'hit up'.

So BWC, open your ears. This complaint is valid one and can have a negative impact upon BWC's value and thus its future!

God Bless
Faith Sloan
Owner, BYC
http://buildyourchannel.com

For sure, I am definitely not in the business of looking for a man. I live in Utah and it is not that many African Americans around with whom to connect and find out what is going on in the real world. I like the positive tone of your website and want to keep it that way.
By the way if you do want to know what is going on in Utah in the African American community go to: www.soulcityice.com

Interesting...I'm very new to this site, when I logged on today, I had an email from a gentleman basically trying to pick up on me and his email reads very similar to the one you posted. In my opinion, when men email a bunch of different women, the same stupid message he's desperate, crazy, has a s*xually transmitted disease, a serial killer or all of the above! I researched and found some websites for you men - date.com/ match.com /eharmony.com/sugardaddie.com

****Get off of this site and go hunt down the women that want to be hunted****