Reality
I am in the process of making some of my dreams become reality. I am writing for grants to help me start my own business. I would like to open a
shelter for abused women from all walks of life. The women who are seeking shelter can come to the shelter for help with the following needs:finances, counseling,shelter,medical, emotion, and spiritual help.This will help a growing number of women who don’t have money or any other place to go. A lot of time other shelters are full and they have to return back to the same place they are trying to get away from and this is not good. This makes it even harder from them to get away the next time once they have made up the minds to finally get out the situation they have been in for so long; this sets them back and they are right back were they started from in the first place. We need to open our hearts and our minds and be ready for these women who are ready to make that first step and leave that abusive relationship. The time is now. The choice is yours.
Start today and make a change for the better. When you make the first step you will feel much better I know. Because I did when I decided to do the right thing and get out of all the bad relationships that I was in due men abusing me whether it was s*xual, emotional, physical, verbal. I felt relief and even though I felt fear it was good to not be with that person. I never new sometimes from one day to the next what might happen to me if I stayed in so of those relationships. I think and sometimes I think I could be dead. I thank God for bringing out of every situation and being there for me.
The one thing that I had to learn throughout this whole experience is
that I did not love myself. I did not know to give love so I did not receive
love. The people I was with only gave me what I gave them which were
nothing or no more than negative emotions or feelings. I was so angry
and hurt and feeling sorry for myself after all I had gone through I assumed that I had left the past behind. I was wrong, the past is still living in me because I fear being abused everyday even as I write I feel a sense of it happening to me again. But I am learning to love myself for me and putting my life back on the right track.
I have learned to forgive those who have hurt me and move on with my life. As a child and an adult I was abused but one thing for sure, I have learned to recognize the situation and not stay and get out as soon as it begins. I had surrounded myself with people who are positive and we work together to find ways to support each other on a daily basis if needed to be positive in our everyday life. Hopefully this can help others heal as well as myself.
This is a good opportunity to set myself free from all the stuff that has been holding me back from sharing my story with you. I also would like to help teenagers have access to becoming apart of the community and learning about how to link into the technology world in finding assistance with meeting their needs, sort of like a point of access (POA).
Making them aware of the opportunities they have to be more self-sufficient and depended on them to get what they need and showing them how to accomplish their goals and skills.
In today’s society we must be ready for what is to come next. The best way to do this help people prepare for what they want to accomplish within the next two or three year, help the write their goals, be their coach and mentor them on their goal and help them follow through on
what they have written and always have a backup to continue on in order for them to be success and be a positive mentor.
If you don’t continue to let them know how good they are along with how they can fix it then you are not a very good mentor. Have them come with the solution and then you can add input to their suggestions to help them meet their goals. Always be a good listener, sometimes they don’t want you to give them answers, they needs to just talk and be heard and sometimes listening is all that is required. I think that I can do this with all the things I have learned over throughout my life and it is paying off for me.
I have taught students of all ages and sometimes all they require of me are my listening skills and sometimes that’s all we require of them at school is their listening skills.
shelter for abused women from all walks of life. The women who are seeking shelter can come to the shelter for help with the following needs:finances, counseling,shelter,medical, emotion, and spiritual help.This will help a growing number of women who don’t have money or any other place to go. A lot of time other shelters are full and they have to return back to the same place they are trying to get away from and this is not good. This makes it even harder from them to get away the next time once they have made up the minds to finally get out the situation they have been in for so long; this sets them back and they are right back were they started from in the first place. We need to open our hearts and our minds and be ready for these women who are ready to make that first step and leave that abusive relationship. The time is now. The choice is yours.
Start today and make a change for the better. When you make the first step you will feel much better I know. Because I did when I decided to do the right thing and get out of all the bad relationships that I was in due men abusing me whether it was s*xual, emotional, physical, verbal. I felt relief and even though I felt fear it was good to not be with that person. I never new sometimes from one day to the next what might happen to me if I stayed in so of those relationships. I think and sometimes I think I could be dead. I thank God for bringing out of every situation and being there for me.
The one thing that I had to learn throughout this whole experience is
that I did not love myself. I did not know to give love so I did not receive
love. The people I was with only gave me what I gave them which were
nothing or no more than negative emotions or feelings. I was so angry
and hurt and feeling sorry for myself after all I had gone through I assumed that I had left the past behind. I was wrong, the past is still living in me because I fear being abused everyday even as I write I feel a sense of it happening to me again. But I am learning to love myself for me and putting my life back on the right track.
I have learned to forgive those who have hurt me and move on with my life. As a child and an adult I was abused but one thing for sure, I have learned to recognize the situation and not stay and get out as soon as it begins. I had surrounded myself with people who are positive and we work together to find ways to support each other on a daily basis if needed to be positive in our everyday life. Hopefully this can help others heal as well as myself.
This is a good opportunity to set myself free from all the stuff that has been holding me back from sharing my story with you. I also would like to help teenagers have access to becoming apart of the community and learning about how to link into the technology world in finding assistance with meeting their needs, sort of like a point of access (POA).
Making them aware of the opportunities they have to be more self-sufficient and depended on them to get what they need and showing them how to accomplish their goals and skills.
In today’s society we must be ready for what is to come next. The best way to do this help people prepare for what they want to accomplish within the next two or three year, help the write their goals, be their coach and mentor them on their goal and help them follow through on
what they have written and always have a backup to continue on in order for them to be success and be a positive mentor.
If you don’t continue to let them know how good they are along with how they can fix it then you are not a very good mentor. Have them come with the solution and then you can add input to their suggestions to help them meet their goals. Always be a good listener, sometimes they don’t want you to give them answers, they needs to just talk and be heard and sometimes listening is all that is required. I think that I can do this with all the things I have learned over throughout my life and it is paying off for me.
I have taught students of all ages and sometimes all they require of me are my listening skills and sometimes that’s all we require of them at school is their listening skills.
I am very inspired by your determination, I am trying to start my own business but I do not know how and where to start. Can you please send me the grant writing information that you have? Also please let me know if there is something Ican contribute to help you here in Houston, Texas. Be Blessed.