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Cursing at a woman

Cursing at a woman

Katina J · Sunday, May 24th 2009 at 6:59AM · 156 views
Why do black men think its ok to cures at their woman? (In private or in public) They know it’s a sign of disrespect. They would not dare speak to their mothers like this, yet they think its ok to speak to a woman that they love like this. I just don’t and cannot understand this? Someone make me understand this...please

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Katina J Richmond, VA

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Gwendolyn Davis Sunday, May 24th 2009 at 8:39AM

Well, I think, that we really do need to make a stand on this one, correct them immediately - let them know you don't like it. Now, there are some women who curse just as much as men, and they also need to respect the men who don't like it. If you are going to do it, let the birds of the feather flock together.

Marsha Carter Monday, May 25th 2009 at 4:52AM

Katina,
I agree with the other posts, correct this immediately. Don't allow this type of behavior to continue unchecked. When you express how this makes you feel, make sure you use words that will not make him feel as if you are attacking him. Let him know if you feel disrepected, hurt, belittled, or whatever feelings this type of behavior evokes in you. If it continues and you have expressed how it makes you feel I would definitely question the relationship. Love is not Love without respect. Most men do not curse at their women, I think it is important for you to know this. If you want the relationship to work and you guys want to stay together in a healthy/happy relationship, perhaps you should consider some counseling; check with your church or sometimes your insurance will pay for a few sessions of counseling before you will have to pay anything. I hope this helps.
Blessings

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