Building Relationships
How many times have you thought you had a friend and found out that it was not true? The friend either wasn't who you thought or maybe you wanted them to be something they were not. As one that has a foundation in leadership (which took many years to get here), I have found that it is not the other person, but my self worth that determines what type of relationships I will have with my friends. It takes a lot to move on when it is found that a person or people are no longer conducive for where you are in life; but you hold on to them anyway. Then something happens and you wonder why didn't you listen to that inner voice that told you to move on. Building relationships with women is a very delicate process. We are sensitive and need to treat each other well. Sometimes because one may not have a strong sense of self, they may try to tear you down to make themselves feel better or not show up as the friend you thought they were. When you are sought as a friend, please make sure that you are honest about where you are in life and if you are up to the task. We have to take care of ourselves first, then we can be there for another. Women, especially black women, need love - for one another.
Loved your post. I agree with you 100 percent.