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I'm guessing Mr. Right is some type of soul mate figure to some women. I've met alot of Mr. Rights and don't believe in soul mates. I've fallen in love with and loved and am capable of loving other men. I feel, inventing or employing a Mr. Right, is limiting to yourself in some ways. We're all human, and when I think back on the men I have loved in my past, and will love in my future, the one quality I see manifested in their love, is, like God's, their love is unconditional... I know I can return to them still... To suggest or have an expectation of a man, whether it be external or internal features, looks, occupation, wit, etc. is crazy to me. Does God say "for me to accept you, you have to be this or have this, etc.?" Granted, it's fine to want a man who's honest, kind, loving, etc. But when I hear women speak of their Mr. Right or ideal soul mate, having to have a certain status, or material possessions or look a certain way, I think it's plain sick...
I believe that there is a Mr. Right for every woman. God has that someone for each individual. You may run into many Mr. Rights, but he may not be the right one for you at the right time. God's thoughts are not our thougths and I think many times we forget about that and we have things all planned out for us and there is another plan that has already been set!
There is a Mr. Right for everyone. We'll know when we've found each other... but don't look. GOD will work out the details of anything HE ordains to happen. All we have to do is be patient and faithful that he does exist because HE does exist.
Before I met my husband, I read a book entitled "The Lady, Her Lover and Her Lord" by Sr. Bishop T.D. Jakes, one of my favorite authors. I recommend this book to any woman seeking a life partner or husband. You need not look, (as Kenya suggested), but only ask... I also believe God places people in our lives according to our needs, or that the universe sends you what your aura and disposition attracts at the time... People grow and change and move on, or evolve, and with that notion, sometimes relationships end... I still think of the whole Mr. Right notion as comparable to the Fairytale princess notion of "Someday my prince will come." I encourage every woman to read T.D. Jake's book if you haven't already to put the notion of Mr. Right to rest, and meet your true life partner...
Yes, there is a Mr. Right. He will come to you when you have left the search. My time came when I focused on what made me happy and independent. When you do that I real man ( not a boy ) will come and sweep you off your feet.
Yes! There is a Mr. Right for every woman. Sometimes we miss him because we are looking in the wrong place. I know, because I have had a lot of Mr. Right's most of my life and I seemed to over look, not appreciate or just appreciate. He will nto be prefer, if you know what you do not want, you will know him. I do not believe that the man that is right for you will solve all your life's problems but will be a partner and a friend.
Absolutely! There is a Mr. Right for every woman. A man that is right for my girlfriend may be a wonderful husband for her, but not necessarily right for me and vice versa. I found a wonderful husband 23 years ago and he is just perfect for me in every way. I found that writing down the traits and characteristics you want in a man helps bring them to fruition. It worked for me and I had no idea that it would.
he's imaginary.
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