Someone help me out here.Why would someone get marriend when they know that they are in-love with another?

I get women coming to me all the time, to discuss their problems with their relationships, on a personal level, not professional. I keep trying to get them to sign up on this website (BWC). You know, trying to put them off on you:-) As of yet, to no avail. I do try to help friends out, but I am not an expert on relationships. Anyway, here is the latest: "I married a good man, however, I am so deeply in-love with a man I knew for years prior to marrying my husband." I cannot shake this man." I do not want to hurt my husband." My question, well, why did you get married in the first place. Answer: "my husband loves me, he is supportive and takes care of me, I feel safe with him."

Why do I get stuck with these issues. I did not ask for them. Idon't know what to say, other than, maybe you should have held off on the marriage thing.