Question By Men ALL The Time To US BLACK WOMEN.. Why Are We SINGLE?
Me personally..
God hasnt allowed the right gentlman to come into my life. I am a Christian Woman which limits my lifestyle... Yes I said limit.. but limitations are good when you UNDERSTAND what, when, why, what, who, where and the How's of your life and your purpose..
Also in the dating game, A Christiam Woman shouldnt "casually" date.
It is and should be the goal to be married whenever it is the right time.
However, a great deal of men and women do not understand that getting married is the upmost "EASY" part.....
Now being with the right person and it LASTING is the challenge that both ...BOTH..BOTH parties should be desiring that very thing to happen..... The marriage was CREATED TO LAST......
So none of that has happened as of yet and I personally feel that God has me in a hiding place because men almost do not even look at me.. So that is letting me know that I am not ready yet or God feels that whomever my " BOAZ" is, needs a tad bit more work so I must too stay occupied with Kingdom Business until the appointed time permits..
P.S.
The average man does not think as a woman does. for it is scriptual and it is also played out everyday that we see.... that God made woman for man.. not man for woman......
There are several things that an intelligent, saved, educated woman takes into account when deciding on a mate....
God hasnt allowed the right gentlman to come into my life. I am a Christian Woman which limits my lifestyle... Yes I said limit.. but limitations are good when you UNDERSTAND what, when, why, what, who, where and the How's of your life and your purpose..
Also in the dating game, A Christiam Woman shouldnt "casually" date.
It is and should be the goal to be married whenever it is the right time.
However, a great deal of men and women do not understand that getting married is the upmost "EASY" part.....
Now being with the right person and it LASTING is the challenge that both ...BOTH..BOTH parties should be desiring that very thing to happen..... The marriage was CREATED TO LAST......
So none of that has happened as of yet and I personally feel that God has me in a hiding place because men almost do not even look at me.. So that is letting me know that I am not ready yet or God feels that whomever my " BOAZ" is, needs a tad bit more work so I must too stay occupied with Kingdom Business until the appointed time permits..
P.S.
The average man does not think as a woman does. for it is scriptual and it is also played out everyday that we see.... that God made woman for man.. not man for woman......
There are several things that an intelligent, saved, educated woman takes into account when deciding on a mate....
Wow, you are very insightfull, I too am single, (divorced) because I choose my mate and did not let wait until God told me the man and time is right. You are so right to wait on the Lord. You are an inspiration.