Lady Who Married the Wrong Man!
Taken from main blog home 'What You Need A Greencard or Something?'
Posted Tuesday, August 12th 2008 at 5:49AM by: Guest Visitor
...'I married a __________ man almost one year ago. We met online and dated long-distance here in the States. He admitted to me prior that he married another American and was paying her for the green card. Situation went bad and they separated, but she did not withdraw the petition. He also never received background clearance or the green card. He came to meet my family and we dated for six months long distance. Long story short...I quit a well established position and moved to him. We married and after a few months I filed a petition to support his green card. I recently found he had a_________ girlfriend and was trying to have a baby with her. The s*** "hit the fan" and he stopped seeing her. Of course the trust is gone. Since I now have a position in which I can work from home I have decided to move back to my home in another state. He, of course, supports this because he thinks he will have his cake and eat it. This is an educated man who makes sure I have access to material items, but obviously is looking for his country girl for a relationship. I truly believe he loves me, but is used to his country women and cannot be open to a woman with different cultures. It is unfortunate that most _________ men cannot be honest and do not value the love and trust they are given from their American wives..."
What should this lady do?
Posted Tuesday, August 12th 2008 at 5:49AM by: Guest Visitor
...'I married a __________ man almost one year ago. We met online and dated long-distance here in the States. He admitted to me prior that he married another American and was paying her for the green card. Situation went bad and they separated, but she did not withdraw the petition. He also never received background clearance or the green card. He came to meet my family and we dated for six months long distance. Long story short...I quit a well established position and moved to him. We married and after a few months I filed a petition to support his green card. I recently found he had a_________ girlfriend and was trying to have a baby with her. The s*** "hit the fan" and he stopped seeing her. Of course the trust is gone. Since I now have a position in which I can work from home I have decided to move back to my home in another state. He, of course, supports this because he thinks he will have his cake and eat it. This is an educated man who makes sure I have access to material items, but obviously is looking for his country girl for a relationship. I truly believe he loves me, but is used to his country women and cannot be open to a woman with different cultures. It is unfortunate that most _________ men cannot be honest and do not value the love and trust they are given from their American wives..."
What should this lady do?
All I know is I don't do "green cards."