Appreciate being Single, but get prepared to be a Spouse! (492 hits)
According to the Census and BlackPeopleMeet.com, there are 11.2 million single Black Men over the age of 18 and 13.9 million single Black Women over the age of 18. In 2013 2,077,000 couples were married. 26% were Black Women, and 32% were Black Men. Marriage is a deal many people still want to secure. Love makes the world go round.
In marriage couples are always growing. One of the keys to a successful partnership is to grow together. The alternative is one person gets left behind.
As a single Man or Woman focusing on developing oneself will help you match up to your future Spouse's wants and needs. Staying interesting will help inspire your Spouse to be interesting.
Prepare by working to clean the skeletons and dust out your closets, body, and life. Use your Single days to learn how to love and respect yourself so that you can ensure your Spouse treats you as such.
When its time for you and your Spouse to become one you will have eliminated a lot of "Things To Do" so the baggage load will be a little lighter.
Being a Spouse is a Honor and a Career. Marriage is a contract, that holds each individual accountable for keeping their vows.
If you are Single keep faith that you have been granted the chance to be prepared for your Spouse.
