Are you on your way to achieving your dreams and goals or have you been getting in your own way?
I can tell you this is why so many fail to move forward to claim the life they were meant to live. We tend to dream, plan and take action only to lose focus by allowing ourselves to listen to the negative feedback and thoughts we carry in our minds. Funny how we always think others know what is best for us!
In a survey I recently commissioned, I asked: What would you need to double your business or double your happiness? The overwhelming response was confidence.
Having personally experienced the power of confidence, I can say it will have you owning each day and waking up each morning with the excitement of abundant possibilities. Those who lack self-confidence know the faulty self-image and the days spent feeling as though you are in a hole with no hope of seeing light.
Here are a few tips to have you immediately start to see light. Grab a pen and pad and let’s get started.
Choice – Make the choice now that this is YOUR life and you are going to take responsibility for your thoughts and actions. Confident people always accept responsibility for their actions instead of always having some kind of explanation or excuse.
Kick the negative out of your life, including thoughts and people. Negativity is of NO value. We all have committees in our minds that try to block us from moving forward. Trash them!
Forgive yourself for whatever resides in your past. Not even God can change the past so I doubt if you will be able to.
Decide exactly what you want. This may take a little time since a lot of us have had our talents and beliefs so beaten down we forget what they are and just gave up looking. Trust me, they are still there within your gut. Take the time to just be and listen and feel your inner voice.
Set clear goals for yourself. You will dramatically increase your chance for success by using a blueprint to achieve your goals by working on them every day. Amazing how the world seems to move aside for people who know exactly where they are going!
Write down daily positive affirmations. Fueling your mind and spirit will take you to places you never dreamed possible. Write at least 15 positive affirmations of who or what you would like to be.
