Well Said 
The woman answered, I have no husband. Jesus said to her, you have spoken truly in saying, I have no husband. For you have had five husbands, and the man you are now living with is not your husband. In this you have spoken truly., John 4:17-18...for you have coveted another woman's husband unduly. The Father desires a man, to marry thee. Committee and betroth himself, king faithful to you the queen. For it is not mortally OK...to role play...or settle for a man that strays. The result often...has a negative out come...on you and other innocent victims. He maybe the initiating one...who asked you to become...the other woman. But don't take legal cover, for a moral failure. The Lord wants to lovingly, tell you...the truth. One night stands or drunken fun...physical attraction...can lead to indiscretions. Turn into long term relationships, for some...who succumb...to passion.
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you never (again attempt to) stir up or awaken love before its time., Song of Solomon 7:4 Tick-tok...I bit you never thought...you'd be raising a child out of wedlock. If the beloved had only stopped! Long enough to pray...ask God for the strength to say "NO" and walk away.
Girl post a sign on your well...so married men can clearly tell. You refuse to be damned to hell or sell...yourself short...settle for second best or child support. 
Daughters...purify the well water, Mommy Dearest
Grand! Jesus knows his daughters hearts...each and everyone of us. Thanks for this post Cynthia.