I am stricken with the peculiar curse of being a 21st-century woman who makes more than the man she’s living with — first with a husband for 13 years and now with a new partner. It’s an increasingly common situation, according to a recent Pew study (
http://pewresearch.org/pubs/1466/economics... ) that found that the proportion of American marriages in which the wife makes more money rose to 22 percent in 2007 from 4 percent in 1970.
[A larger share of men in 2007, compared with their 1970 counterparts, are married to women whose education and income exceed their own, according to a Pew Research Center analysis of demographic and economic trend data. A larger share of women are married to men with less education and income.]
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/24/opinion/...
I had a friend who was married to a chef who wouldn't work, because he 'believed' that God wanted him not to work and go into full time pastoral work. Keep in mind he had no church.