Throughout this year, I have been blessed to help couples to deal with their relationship issues. It has become increasingly apparent to me that many people are with the wrong person. There are many reasons for this unhappy situation, but I have begun to realize that people do not sufficiently investigate potential spouses before jumping the broom. Unfortunately, this advice may have come a little late for those who have already made sacred vows to one another. However, even these struggling relationships can be revived and restored with the commitment to seek help from a trained professional, and the further commitment to do the individual and couples work that is critical to this process. But for those who are still looking and waiting for Mr. and Mrs. Right, stop dating and begin to investigate those you are considering as a life partner. For those of you who are interested in finding out what is essential for you to know about a potential mate, drop me a line. Don't go into 2010 with the same faulty strategies for living your best life.
[There are many reasons for this unhappy situation, but I have begun to realize that people do not sufficiently investigate potential spouses before jumping the broom.]
Sister Gloria you have just hit the nail on it's head with this statement! We can let lust get the best of us and unfortunately many have already had a taste of the 'forbidden fruit' before they are able to investigate the potential suitor. I say that's the point of no return, because if one sees that the person isn't good for them, the s*x is---
Investigate-Investigate-Investigate!!
Tuesday, December 29th 2009 at 12:06PM
Jen Fad
