How Would You Handle This Sisters?

Jen, I'm a little scarry to comment on this one! (Smiles)... However, I think I would be okay with it. I feel I should have a developed a trusting relationship with my man that this would be... perfectly innocent. Of course, if there were other reasons I felt he couldn't be trusted-- then I would look for other alternatives for him to meet his appointments. There is always another solution to handle the errand of picking up his car.. "I'd trust him, because, our relationship should be strong enough that I have confidence "He only has eyes for me.".... But then, I don't have a man, cause....I love my freedom!

Miisrael,
You are too funny. Since when does having a man mean that you can't have freedom? Miisrael--the southern belle--- you always make me laugh!

Jen, now you know that's a HOT MESS !!! LOL LOL,
he don't never make no arrangements with no other woman, not never !
You can't trust them as far as you can throw them ,ever.
If he gets the ok from you the first time, it'll happen again, and that will be your fault cause you let it happen.
He should have made other arrangements, where theres a will there's a way.
Mine would have to walk or catch the bus.
Why start something you can't finish?
Tell him your Sister Goddess Dr LaDonna said, don't even go there. It ain't gonna work.
He actually was asking your permission for something he knows is out of place and out of line.
It was very disrespectful for him to go there in the first place. He better ask somebody or reconize.

Hmmmm...
Maybe I shouldn't put my 2 cents in but I will.
I think that any relationship should be built with a foundation of trust and communication. If you don't have that you have nothing!
Firstly I'd say to you ask yourself about past situations...
Have you caught your man up cheating?
Do you trust him?
Do you believe that he loves you and would do nothing to hurt you?
I say ask yourself these questions as a starting point and if you can think of other things you deem important to ask self.

I'm a believer that people will do what they are going to do no matter what you say think or feel. So if he's gonna cheat whether it be with the woman taking him to the appointment or the one he meets at the appointment he will find a way.
I'm not into couples setting such limitations because you have to let your mate be who they are and make their own choices. Sure you can say when you don't agree with something but at the same time you have to let them be free to do what they feel is best whether it be right for you or not.
If it were you having a man take you to an appointment how would you want him to take it? Would you want him to trust you? Would you want him questioning your judgment? Would you want him becoming suspicious over something that is innocent?

Just my advice.
Final decision is yours and yours alone. (or whoever is in the situation)

Yes, trust is part of the equation, thats not what were saying here.
We women must control our situations always, thats why its so....discombobulated in the first place.
We Let this place in time happen.
Respect, communication ,and understanding of it is the key, we have got to regain our consciousness to the fact that we Are the Mothers of Creation and deserve the utmost respect on All levels.
He should've trusted his trust instincts to know not to bring this foolishness to you in the first place.
Black American African Woman, awaken from the sleeping pill you have been given, and realize that you are Goddess and Queen of the Universe !
Peace.

If Obama even look like he would pull some of Bill's bull he pulled up in the Oval Office, we Goddess will come up in Washington and beat the slop out of Obama.
But of course Michelle is a Goddess and can handle HEr business and we won't have to take that measure. LOL.
It's ALL in handeling your BUSINESS Goddess!