Well, I think that some black men can't -or better - don't know how to stick with black women... They want something different... Guess because they find it easier bamboozling a white lady than a woman of his kind. But on the other hand, some black women are not quite amiable... Often, they tend prioritizing the list of wealth of the guy instead of prioritizing finding an interesting live and optimizing in a promising relationship...
I think this is some of the reasons some black men will just hook up with a white lady!
I don't know why some black men date only white women other than it may be their preference, but I think Wesley Snipes said he doesn't date black women because he thinks we have issues.
So why is it do you guys think that some black men exclusively date white women? I've heard that some guys have had bad experiences with black women but what have you all heard?
I feel Black women have an agenda just as a Black man I say once and again we will have our own identity as same as the Black man
Regardless, if whether or not a black man decides to date out of his race, I don't think it's necessary to put down the white women who choose to date them. I mean isn't it a bit hypocritical to become highly defensive when we as black are stereotyped unfairly, only to direct the same bias towards these women who are chosen over us? I don't doubt that there are ignorant and narrow minded black men who choose to believe the worse about black women, and use it as an excuse to date outside of their race. But I ask you, would these individuals be worth our time anyway? I can't see why many otherwise intelligent black women are focusing their energy on a situation that's out of their hands.. Rather, looking for a partner who's going to love them for being who they are. Despite popular belief, there isn't a shortage of eligible black men in the world that wouldn't appreciate a sista. However, this whole debate over who these men choose to date is wasted outrage.
Well, I think that some black men can't -or better - don't know how to stick with black women... They want something different... Guess because they find it easier bamboozling a white lady than a woman of his kind. But on the other hand, some black women are not quite amiable... Often, they tend prioritizing the list of wealth of the guy instead of prioritizing finding an interesting live and optimizing in a promising relationship...
I think this is some of the reasons some black men will just hook up with a white lady!
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Getting my ego out of the way. Our Black men are marrying white women, because they like the way they look. They think that they are getting a prize. So little do they know, but they find out quickly.
We as Black women do not stand a chance against our white sisters when it comes to our men.
These are the last days sisters I advise you to leave also. Meaning start dating white men. Our men are not there, and you girls need to start taking care of yourselves. Because OUr men sure are not taking care of us.
This is so sad. We stood by them and look at how they repay us. It's a shame before God.
Paulette
Well, I think that some black men can't -or better - don't know how to stick with black women... They want something different... Guess because they find it easier bamboozling a white lady than a woman of his kind. But on the other hand, some black women are not quite amiable... Often, they tend prioritizing the list of wealth of the guy instead of prioritizing finding an interesting live and optimizing in a promising relationship...
I think this is some of the reasons some black men will just hook up with a white lady!
Getting my ego out of the way. Our Black men are marrying white women, because they like the way they look. They think that they are getting a prize. So little do they know, but they find out quickly.
We as Black women do not stand a chance against our white sisters when it comes to our men.
These are the last days sisters I advise you to leave also. Meaning start dating white men. Our men are not there, and you girls need to start taking care of yourselves. Because OUr men sure are not taking care of us.
This is so sad. We stood by them and look at how they repay us. It's a shame before God.
Paulette
They just are not showing us any alligence at all. I for one am about to abandon ship, no I have abandoned ship a long time ago.
I live in Harlem NY, and these guys are bringing their white women right in front of us. That is a bad mistake, and they need to think twice before throwiwng their white women in our faces. I am sick of it. But I am just as guilty. When I saw them datig white women I said I can date white men.
And I will tell you the truth, I had the best time of my life when I went out with white men. They treated me like the lady I am. and paid the entire bill.
I dated this White gentleman for 5, years, yes 5 years, and we went through hell and back, I But I found out that he had a problem, and I just could not deal with him.
I know I was wrong, but I could not deal with his problem, which was he could not have an organasiam. .
I left him for a Black Man, who I married, he treated me very badly, to the point of putting me in the hospital.
Only because he refused to work, and I worked everyday. I tried going back to the white guy, but the relationship was never the same, After making love to a man who could perform, and then try going back to a man who could not perform, Sister's it will not work.
The White guy and I are just friends now, but he gets angry when I tell him that I am going on a date.I tried tellig him to date other women, ut he just sits at home and take care of them filthy cats of his. He told me they were the only things in life that has not abandoned him. (Whatever )
I live in Harlem, and beleive me the Black Men will give you dirty looks everytime they would see me with my white date. I started fearing for my life, I had to stop having him meet me at my apartment, and I would meet him downtown for dinner.
Opps going off on another topic sorry.
Sister's the matter is only going to get worse for us regading our Black Men. I suggest you take care of yourelves, and date outside of the race, or else you will be some lonely and unhappy sisters. Alligence means nothing to our men, Ladies take care of yourselves. You owe the Black men nothing, We done our jobs and stood by them when they really needed us. Look at how they reward us.
This whole world is changing, and in another 100 years race will not be the subject any longer, it will be survival.
Me is going to take care of me. I suggest you girls do the same thing..
I did not want to date outside of my race, I have thought about what I have done, and guess what? Had the Black men been there for me I would have never went into the arms of his enemy.
Some Black men are good about 10 out of 100. Those men are usually already taken.
So what is left for you. (Sharing ) ???????? I do not think so . someone is gonna get hurtt)
Personal preference in men. Men, just like women have the right to choose whom they date. Perhaps instead of lamenting who black men are dating, we should be looking at our options too. I don't limit myself to dating black men. To be honest, I haven't ben on a date with a black man in over 3 years. Perhaps you should do the same.
