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What would you do if you found out you had a sibling you didn't know about???
One of my followers asked the question "If you found out that one of your parents had another child that you didn't know about; would you want to have a relationship with that sibling and how would yo
Love Isn't Love Until It's Gone
My favorite Prince song is "Sometimes it Snow's in April". You probably don't know about this song unless you are a true Prince fan. It's off of the Under the Cherry Moon soundtrack. The very last thi
What's Love Got To Do With It???
Like Tina Turner said, "What's Love Got to Do With It?" Do people really get together for Love any more? Do we even really know what Love is? Are we really searching for Love? I don't think so!
Dating Women With Children
For more interesting topics... Check out my blog at www.treysopinion.blogspot.com The older I become, the more difficult it becomes to find a woman without kids. There is nothing wrong with kids, b
Misery Loves Company
We often hear the phrase "Misery Loves Company"... this is very true... Mentally, Emotionally and Financially. When you are consulting your friends for advise... have you evaluated their situation?
Women are turning "Good Men" into "Not so Much"
We often hear women say there is a shortage of "Good Men". Again, I ask what exactly is a "Good Man"... attractive, good job, good build and good credit? Or can a good man be average looking, average
The Voices In My Head? Is This Why Black Men Cheat???
I hear voices in my head! Does that make me crazy? Okay, maybe not voices but there is a conflict going on... id versus ego... maybe an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other. The angel always
Are Black Men Afraid To Commit?
Are There Any Good Black Men Left? Why Black Men Date Outside of Their Race? How to Know if You are The ONE Find the answer to these questions and more... Please add me as a friend on BWC and
How to know if You are the ONE
One of my readers, Nichole, asks how long does it take for a man to know if you are the "ONE". This is a very difficult question to answer, and there is nothing written in stone. It will definitely de
The Black Male Ego ~ FRAGILE: HANDLE WITH CARE
The Male Ego in psychoanalysis, is the division of the psyche that is conscious, most immediately controls thought and behavior, and is most in touch with external reality. The male ego can push him t
Why Black Men Date Outside Of Their Race
I know this is going to be a sensitive subject... so if you have thin skin... PROCEED WITH CAUTION!!! As always, this is only my opinion... I can't speak for all black men... I can only tell it from m