Is the Black Church Keeping Black Women Single? { April Mason and Saint's commentary advise for Men } (359 hits)
Uploaded on Apr 4, 2011
***This video is of my account, my life, my observation from a single woman and as a previous Pastor's wife.*** {April Mason }
Now let's look at this objectively and one needs to have control of your life based on what 'makes sense' and what fits universal principles and logic.
One must learn to question traditions and thought patterns that are illogical and simply don't make sense at all.
Aint no man going to scoop you up without effort on your part Females!
Remember your mate should compliment you towards completion.
Brothers here is some friendly advise to gain attention from females.
1. Learn the Art of Hygiene and Proper Clothing Ettiquette
Personally men's cologne with the appropriate clothing attire is essential during the attraction process. In the Ancient days women frequently bathe themselves in frankincense and Myrrh fragrance oils for extended periods of time and this is an automatic turn-on to the s*xual senses of men. The same goes for men's cologne without too gawdy of a scent. Make sure your face is completely clean and the hairline is tight as well. The ABC's that some men and women ignore...... at times.
2. Improve Yourself Brothers
Simply learn to be diverse, funny, interesting, and persuasive in your conversation pattern. Explore new interest, facilitate a love of arts, fashion, music, and asthetics of life. Remember don't fall into the trap that your education, money, power, will automatically attract females. Be a "Chameleon" arouse interest with authority and confidence, learn to engage women effectively around their interest and passions. Open-ended questions are most effective Brothers>.
3. Learn the Art of Attraction
Forget the Tricks and Deception because candid and confident men are in serious demand by women.
You need to develop new lines that are fresh and not over the top to arouse attention. Women will most certaintly ask "US" are you currently in a relationship. If you are not, discuss lightly that you recently broke -up with your previous girlfriend however the terms of the break-up was very amicable.
That will lead to further details of the relationship and immediately throw in another relationship that was amicable and explain to this day were still friends and on speaking terms.
Brothers.... women love men that other women find attractive.
If you can sing or play a musical instrument include that into the "convo" piece... used effectively getting the digits will be much easier.
Next... never watch a women's body parts upon initial conversation period.
Be on point and focus on her eyes because this radiates interest and invokes the sensory perception inside the brains of emotions rather than logic.
Once the flo is establish remain focus on her lips/mouth because if you into her this arouses "s*xual triggers".
4. Learn to Pass Women's Secret Test
All women have secrets questions to ask a man, how you respond effectively will determine whether you play or go. This is the women's process of filtering out weak men. Remember be confident not cocky, keep your cool, don't elaborate to much.... Keep your answers short and sweet.
This is a women's way of determining that you make her safe.
"Then Take Control" of the conversation smoothly after the test questions are completed. Don't have secret questions for the Female at all cost. You can do that at a later time.
5. Be aware of your Body Language Always.
This technique if used effectively can trigger attraction mechanisms. Standing upright with good eye contact connotes confidence and strength.
The Bar area of the club was the location that I seeked personally when I was single.
During the "convo" process pause, stay cool, and always maintain proper eye contact.
If you master this technique of proper "eye contact" you can tell immediately if the female is fairly honest, lieing, and can easily move into the emotional zone more effectively.
6. Get Numbers Smoothly
Whatever works for you is fine however make sure it's fresh.
I used to have the women laugh before I ask for her email or phone number.
Once the attraction is established I would say something like this:" LOVE the conversation was wonderful and I must Go and prepare for a meeting in the morning however I need your contact number to get to know you better."
Forget that BS push lines... don't need it after holding a long conversation... because the female should be open and interested at that point.
Okay... that's been my experiences with women until I meet my sweetie!!!!!
So in recap be fearless with your approaches brothers and find the women that is your dream... but you have to play to win...........
