(BlackDoctor) A partner is meant to provide love, support and help you to evolve as an individual and a couple. But when you find a relationship lacking, or as a source of pain and fear, it may be time consider other options.
After deep soul-searching, you may come to realize that for your own well-being you may need to step away from the relationship. Once youfve admitted this to yourself you may be flooded by fear, guilt, or uncertainty. How do you know youfre doing the right thing? And what steps do you take to get there?
Here are nine tips to get out of a mediocre relationship and reclaim your life.
1. First and foremost, you have to be honest with yourself.
If you are even considering whether you should get out of a relationship, chances are something has been happening for quite some time to make you feel upset. Ask yourself some basic questions like:
¡Do I feel energized or drained after I spent an hour with my partner? ¡Do I want to spend time with him/her or do I feel like I have to? ¡Do I go to my partner looking for a response that I never get? ¡Do I come away consistently disappointed by his/her comments and behavior? ¡I giving way more to the relationship than my partner? If most of the answers to these questions are eyesf, maybe it is time to look after your own emotional needs.
2. Clarify the problems by keeping a record.
If you are still undecided whether you should get out of ...
I think its a Western mindset, because other cultures are not thinking of s*xing every woman in a skirt but rather securing their futures and getting married in order to leave a heritage or legacy in the Earth.
Blame it on the other guy, but in your case Saint... 'Uncle Sam'. That's another thing about Western men, why aren't men here willing to accept responsibility for their OWN actions & their OWN thoughts? Why not own up to the fact.. that Men here are overly horny because they spend too, much time viewing and listening to things that give them huge s*xual appetites. ((Lol))
