Essence Magazine Presents Frisky Friday: The Guide to Going Downtown (631 hits)
I Was Reading Essence Today & Was SHOCKED To See An Article On Oral Sex~ Millie Jackson Eat Your Heart Out!
Going Downtown is most often viewed as the appetizer in our steamy lovemaking sessions. We kiss and _____ and _____ to stimulate our coital cravings. But as we all know, going downtown can make for a delicious main course. This Frisky Friday, we give Going Downtown ... the extra attention it deserves.
Set it off right Before you go down, think about the mood you want to set. If it's sweet and sensuous, you may want to dim the lights, throw on a s*xy slow jam, lead him to the bed and deliver gentle kisses all over his neck, shoulders and abs before you even move below his waist. If the mood you're going for is more racy, look for a tune that's extra s*xy with a nice tempo, try grabbing him, pressing him against the wall and giving him strong kisses, licking and biting (tenderly) him as you head south. For added elements of surprise, you can blindfold him so he can't anticipate your every tingly touch, or restrain him so he can't touch you.
Comfort is key You're going the distance tonight so make sure you're comfortable. The traditional position for fellatio -- your man on his back, you between his legs -- takes all the pressure off of your back and has the added benefit of allowing you and your lover to stare into each other's eyes. The only drawback is that this position can be tough on the neck. If that's the case, try kneeling on the bed to use more of your torso, giving your neck a rest. While some women find that being on their knees feels subservient, the next position can be the most comfortable. Sit your man down on the edge of the bed, toss a pillow in front of him on the floor and kneel on it. You'll have the perfect angle to go all the way... Read more IF YOU DARE: http://www.essence.com/relationships/s*x/f...
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I've got to look in my Essence subscription. I usually just pile them up until I get around to reading them which is usually never. Essence did not go there. Well I copied everything down for future references. I wonder if there's an articale for other side of the coin instead of just opinions. Great Post. I didn't think anyone would have the nerve.
Friday, December 10th 2010 at 8:12PM
anita moore
I know guys!! I was pleasantly surprised, but made sure to save the article to my files. Ha~!
Saturday, December 11th 2010 at 9:13PM
Jen Fad
